Are you a sadist or a masochist?

[Anonymous]

if possible, pls explain in the comments the reason why you chose it and what have you tried so far? thank you😊

[ohshee]

Neither one really I mean I'm more just lover than anyting.
During locally I have been asked to do certain things and I think the first probably the second time and I did it is it hard to get into because I'm just not that type of guy but once it was explained to me and I was told it was okay to do certain things I wouldn't work and it was pretty hot the thing that gets me turned on is getting her turned on and making her scream that's the most important thing is making it all about her so whatever that takes that's what I would do because that's what gets me turned on his to get her totally out of control turned on

[ChrisMaster69]

I’m a Dom, which means it’s being as sadistic as required by the masochist.

the thing is not all things needed by a masochist fall under sadism.

some fall under control and discipline.

bit yeah can go very dark if needed.

oh and there is something called top drop, as majority of people do not like inflicting severe pain on someone they are with.

[ChrisMaster69]

@lilaccc thank you for the MHG most appreciated @harleigh90 snap

[Harleigh90]

@chrismaster69 🤣 Twinning!

[ChrisMaster69]

@Harleigh90 🤗🥰 Yeps

[Asker]

tbh, believe or not, i haven't chosen anyone yet.. you can say it automatically moves on its own. so i was a bit surprised when you say thanks🤦‍♀️ but however, this question just for fun, so whatever the answers... um, you're welcome, i guess. 😂

[ChrisMaster69]

@lilaccc lol no problem and a pleasure for both myself and @harleigh90

[Asker]

sure 👏☺️

[Harleigh90]

Masochist 100%. But the gratification goes deeper then the need of control. For me it's about connecting and knowing the sadist/dom knows my limits he/she can take, but also fulfilling their own desire.

[Still-alive]

noted ;)

[ChrisMaster69]

@harleigh90 the fun is often learning those limits. Seeing how much before they break…

[Harleigh90]

@Still-alive ❤❤❤

[Harleigh90]

@ChrisMaster69 What we spoke about the other day with the chair..

[ChrisMaster69]

@harleigh90 yeah I’m sure going past that would be good.

[sam_antha]

The chair?

[sam_antha]

@Harleigh90 @ChrisMaster69 you have me very curious what you mean by “the other day with the chair”

[Harleigh90]

sam_antha Seeing as you're very interested.. We have 'the chair' in our ready room. It's compliments the need when using marital aids.

[sam_antha]

@Harleigh90 I don’t understand … “the chair” is used for bondage?

[Harleigh90]

Bang on the money honey.. An ordinary chair with extraordinary possibilities.

[sam_antha]

Is it a “Lucifer chair”?

[sam_antha]

Also is the chair for you or him?

[Harleigh90]

As much as I insist on a throne, his very firm and tells me no! It's for whoever sir desires..

[JosyJosy]

I've been called a sadist before because of the facesitting

[NetSapien]

100% Dom.. I'd apply that sadist definition very very lightly to my lifestyle. More like control than pain.

[Kaneki05]

More masochist and reasoning is obvious to anyone who is a masochist it's hot.

[Somegirl678]

masochist

[Laura456]

None of the above

[FunkyMonkee]

Beats me!

[Phoenix98]

I fall into both categories though I'm probably more of a sadist then masochist.

[Wester1967]

I am a sadist to sadists.

[sam_antha]

Masochist

[sam_antha]

I had a dated last night and we did some light bondage

[Subarugirl]

I am 100% masochist.

[Andres77]

Voyeur...

[Cubus]

Neither really, but more masochist.

[Wise4myage]

D. Neither.

[PrettyPriya]

I would have answered "I am Barbara Pavlin". But that is just me.

[Wise4myage]

@PrettyPriya Hahaha.

[Guardian45]

I'm a dominant switch. It depends on the woman.

[fred_durst]

u mean sexually? no
i love being in control though , like tying her up

[fred_durst]

anyway , what is the manga title above? just curious

[Asker]

massacre happy end (i only know from ig so i haven't read the manga and it seems the genre doesn't have anything to do with sex.)

[fred_durst]

yes there is almost no sex scenes so far , the manga is full of blood though so what kind of manga did you usually like to read?

[Asker]

i haven't followed manga in a while but the last one i read was like tokyo ghoul, promised neverland, an innocent sin, the pale horse, demon slayer. hbu?

[fred_durst]

i only know some of them , so you like thriller eh? my favorite , well i am a dude , so mostly ecchi manga lol , like city hunter and brawling go (manhwa) . some others are really popular manga when i was kid , like dragon ball.,

[Asker]

more like psychological lol. oh i know the manga you read, but sadly i don't like them.. tbh, not into ecchi lol. but sometimes i'll read if the story and the visuals are nice. about 'dragonball', i don't read it, instead just watching when still little.

[fred_durst]

really? , but an innocent sins is ecchi for sure , i just knew it from you and love it , currently reading it now , thanks for recommendation by the way

[Asker]

an innocent sins was good... but the ending was.. hmm.. anyway, the story still nice, there have sex scene whether it's straight, bi or for gay as well ( but there also include S&M, and rape tho🙃). *sry for spoiler lol... if you like the story like that, maybe you can also try to read 'lost and found (by amapora)'

[fred_durst]

thanks , is 'lost and found also has yaoi scenes though?:i found an innocent sin interesting until i saw two dude making out lol

[Asker]

ok i just remembered that it doesn't show a lot of sex scene, except her second manga (the title is "comedown machine") is still on going but as far as i know there isn't for yaoi. how about "hardcore vanilla"?, the story was good, and more sex scene (S&M again) but not yaoi🤔.. sry but i want to ask, are you into yaoi manga?

[fred_durst]

NO YAOI , it is the last kind of manga i want to see lol i completely understand if you like it though yaoi seems very popular especially among young female who like manga/manhwa wow you seems know a lot of s&m manga eh? thanks again for sharing it with me i only know one sm manga , nana to kaoru

[Asker]

ohh.. lol sry i confuse before, i thought you the one who like yaoi lolol... tbh, i prefer straight so yeah i don't really like yaoi either (except for manga which i really like it). even i'm not fan of "killing stalking" 😅 ok i recommend you to read "hardcore vanilla" after an innocent sin, it's colorful and pretty much sexy scene indeed lol

[fred_durst]

i read first few chapter of hardcore vanilla well , not a fan of a girl who fill the role as DOM , though an innocent sin has pretty good start , but after i saw two dude making out later , i stopped reading it

[Asker]

okay bummer 😂😂

[fred_durst]

where are you from by the way? or is it secret? i am from indonesia (south east asia)

[Asker]

can we continue by pm?

[OddBeMe]

D. Or neither.

[OnTheLevel]

I'm neither

[Charliefretz329]

Penis torture

[Siabong]

was it done to you?

[Charliefretz329]

Yes done to me

[Charliefretz329]

I didn’t choose it though. It just exists

[EaterPeter]

Mostly sadist

[Jude_Wills]

Both
I am switch

[Julious0202]

None of them