Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?

Are there really people who are bi-curious but are afraid to admit it to even their closest friends? Have you ever been curious?

Growing up in the San Francisco Bay Area, I guess it is just easier to talk about stuff like that since it is so prevalent but I know in some parts of the world, not so much.

If you are curious, do you wish you had someone that you could feel free to talk with about it?

Please share your feelings pro or con but if you are anti-bi, be nice please. You are safe to admit your true feelings on this post either way :)
Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
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Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
A. No, I am totally straight and not even the least bit bi-curious and never have been
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Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
B. No, I am straight but did go through a bi-curious stage when I was younger but never acted on it
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Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
C. No, I am straight but did have a bi-curious experience once when I was younger and found out it wasn't for me
Vote C
Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
D. Yes, I have had many bi-curious experiences in the past but still consider myself straight
Vote D
Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
E. Yes, I am currently bi-curious but don't know how to go about satisfying my curiousity or maybe I am just too nervous about repercussions
Vote E
Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
F. I am totally bi, or at least much of the time, and I love it
Vote F
Are you afraid to admit that you are bi-curious, or are you really not and never have been?
G. OTHER, see comments below, or just open the "Seriously Bi-Curious, or Not" survey
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  • I have had many bi curious fantasies since my early 20s, they only got stronger as I got older. I finally acted on it 2 years ago after separating from wife. I was very tempted to cheat, largely because of being completely shut out sexually. I never actually did, but I certainly looked.

    I don’t have a lot of experience with men but now that I’ve gone down this path, it would be hard to completely give it up again. I’m definitely not “out” - I just don’t think I could go public with that and not be judged in a negative way. I know it’s dishonest and I think if I met another woman I cared about, eventually I will tell her….. but I know it scares a lot of people away.

  • I'm panromantic and open about it.

  • I am not bi or even bi curious and never been :)

  • i normally blabber that i'm bi, its not a secret the secret is i'm probably a lesbian most the time

  • Does it count if I'm interested in seeing what it would feel like to be the reciever of anal? I wouldn't be able to do anything with another man, but a woman with a strap-on is pretty appealing, simply because I'd like to experience what it's like.

  • I'm bi but only with select girls.

    • Do you like younger girls?

  • I'm into both sex

    • Nice, thank you for sharing that :)

    • Yh I own my sexuality

    • I wonder why you answer ONLY those girls who admitted they are bi... Are all people from San Francisco this high and mighty about homosexuality? You're probably one of those people who screams at the street how tolerant she is...

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  • No, I'm not even afraid to admit that I'm not bi-curious, but I'll fool around with a guy, or anything offering sexual experiences, when I do some kinds of drugs.

  • Absolutely A! 100% honesty!

  • I am curious about everything. Life is always about learning, so I don't feel pressured to learn it all anytime soon.

  • No I am definitely straight

  • No I only love women, I am a trans, but it's still women I look to.
    Admittedly if I was a female I would be lesbian...

  • I am bi-curious but totally love everything about women. It is kinda weird…I am not really attracted to men but find the penis extremely interesting and fun. I have thought about and considered doing things with another guys cock since I was younger (zero interest in kissing). I did get to experience it once so far. My wife and I had a threesome (needed support) where the ultimate goal was to give me the opportunity to suck one. We were successful. I even sucked him off and made him cum in my mouth. It was a stressful / fun / interesting experience. One day maybe we will do it again. I think we will enjoy it more a second time. I was stressing out about my first time / mental taboo, etc.

    I would also like to try other things, like feeling a hard one in my backside…. We have played with toys.

    Ultimately I think it is a curiosity on my part. Trying to understand and experience how it might feel to do things that girls have done to / for me…

    • This is where I’m at too. I have no desire to be in a relationship with a man other than the sexual gratification. I do not want to kiss a man, live with one, or be married to one. I could see hanging out, doing fun things together, and then getting it on afterwards. But the feeling of true love and attachment, I think I could only do that with a woman. Hope your journey progresses and you take the next step, I’m confident you will love getting tapped, I know I did. It took a long time to get there for me. You are quite lucky to have a supportive wife to help you along that journey which is the best case scenario.

    • @Frank_theTank999. Nice to hear I am not the only one. So, what was most interesting, fun, different things you liked and or disliked about tapped?

    • It’s so much better getting the real thing and the power behind it than using toys and such. Other than the very first part of it, it just felt really good. Taking his c**k in my mouth felt really natural too - it’s hard to describe but once you take the plunge the urge to take every drop in your mouth is pretty strong. No desire to have any kind of relationship, kiss, anything of the sort other than just go at it.

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  • Been straight all my life but decided a couple of years ago to experiment. I've been with a few guys but only for some mutual wanking. It was very enjoyable I have to say. I still don't find guys attractive though, walking down the street I'm still drawn to the ladies.

  • I have had attractions to girls before, and have fantasies about things happening, but wouldn't actually be interested in a relationship with a girl. Men turn me on a lottt more, so I'd still consider myself straight.

    • That's called bisexual

    • @An8755487 It's a thing of the past, I'm not really as attracted to girls. I was more bi-curious if anything.

    • "I'm not really as attracted to girls" EVEN IF YOU ARE 90% ATTRACTED TO MEN AND 10% ATTRACTED TO WOMEN YOU ARE STILL BISEXUAL BY DEFINITION

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  • No, I am totally straight and not even the least bit bi-curious and never have been

  • I'm bi so this is a non-issue for me.

  • I think there is a difference between bi curious and versatile/recreational/curiosity sex,,,
    There used to be phrase "versatile" for guys and girls who would play with same sex manually or orally with no kissing, recreational could be watching porn with same sex and helping get each other off, eg guys sucking each other off to help each other out. Curiosity is eg a guy sucking another guy off just to see what it's like, or a girls pegging each other to see what receiving anal would be like,,,
    But maybe bi-curious includes these three as a general umbrella and I've not understood the term,,,

  • I don't think bi-curios includes not turning down a blindfolded blowjob if it turns out to be a boy doing it. Same for anal sex. If I don't know it's a guy and I am having anal or getting a blowjob I don't think it qualifies as bi-curious because I wouldn't know it wasn't a girl and if given the choice I would like a girl, even if the guy gives a better blowjob.

  • I'm as straight as it gets, no interest in males whatsoever

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