Are you always nervous during your first time with someone?

[Anonymous]

First kiss, first oral sex, first "regular" sex etc

[BillHe1]

Personally, I was for years. "Nutting" or Premature Ejaculation was always a problem for me. Even on my wedding night (I was still a Virgin), when we were ready to have intercourse I did Premature Ejaculation before I could even enter her vagina. And it was that way for quite awhile until we'd do it more slowly. It was really embarrassing. It was just too exciting and I'd be working myself up to failure... too horny and not able to control myself.

Even today over 40 years later, I still get nervous about trying some things... Like wanting to try ANAL.

[Jusin]

I was before my first kiss as I wasn't really sure how to do it properly but my girlfriend at the time was really understanding and explained how and showed me how and she said I did good. For first time oral I wasn't too nervous really as I was more happy then anything. Haven't experienced first time regular sex yet though, as much as I want it I am nervous about it.

[likelyOK]

It really depends even if it is only kissing I get nervous if I feel he is coming on too strong. Sometimes the first time having sex I’m not nervous at all it depends.

[IveGotNoName]

I've only kissed one guy in my life, but I assume that you're nervous every time for a first kiss with someone

[IveGotNoName]

I don't think I would want to calm down the nerves, it's part of the fun

[DrunkAss]

I don't think I ever did so much but my dates usually involved an icebreaker of sorts like ice skating, or rollercoaster rides at an amusement park, or straight-up drinking and dancing. So we got comfortable real fast -- lots of laughs and touching.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Absolutely.

[weysally]

I use to be but not any more

[ChrisMaster69]

No not really

Couple times when with a new girl and going to BDSM party etc and nervous she will decide not to go.

I think it’s really just experience and knowing it is harder (or maybe not lol) for the guy.

He has more to preform

Relaxing and taking it slow helps.

[Red_Arrow]

No, not nervous. But cautious. I do not want to overwhelm or scare the girl I am with.

[SweetTay]

Yeah

[summiter]

A little bit but also excited that I was having sex with a new girl and great orgasms await both of us!

[Blackgirlasja]

Being nervous is normal but it can also be a sign that you aren’t ready.

[MikeTheBartender]

I have had sex with over 200 women, the good part is that the nervousness goes away. The bad part is that sometimes the novelty goes away too

[helva]

Always been.

[hasdrubal164]

only if im still interested in her and scared to lose her i would be nervous if not than i would be myself

[JosyJosy]

Of course, but the good kind of nervous, the "I can't believe it is finally happening" kind of nervous

[jspl90]

im usually somewhat nervous during the first time

[scott04sa22]

I was nervous a couple times then I got used to it because it was natural.

[shade_19]

Of course, it's something you've never done b4, so it's a new experience
So being nervous is more expected than being confident

[shade_19]

Overcoming the nervousness? Umm... what i do is that i just do it... being filled with nervousness and still doing it just makes me numb, so actually when i do it for the first time i just go blank thus unable to recall the experience 😅 It takes me like 2nd or 3rd time to feel and experience it in detail

[Schizoaffective]

Yea always
But that's the fun part

[Born-for-sex]

Well confidence is a personal thing. You need to give yourself the affirmations that you are good enough or beautiful or all that he wants. As long as you are struggling with confidence then will always feel uncomfortable. But once you are confident those nerves just build you up to be more crazy! It is great!

[sidhutv]

Yes and we just feel the sex and enjoy it and get fine while going deeper in it

[collie22]

I didn't know that would happen.. so no

[dudeinohio]

yes i am