Are You "Hot"? What Defines Hot For Either The Way You See Yourself Or The Opposite Sex?

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This was originally going to be a question bout temperature lol cuz even tho it's only in 70's here, guess them hot flashes getting me cuz I'm burning up lol So right now I'm Super Hot lololol

ecfresh · Accepted Answer

I’m kinda like that slow burn when you forgot you turned on to preheat the oven and went to bed. Middle of the night you wake up and swear you are forgetting to do something. When you get to the stove and open it the inside is very warm and inviting.

humanearth · Accepted Answer

Well I have no problems working in extremely cold or hot temps. I know I'm too sexy for my own good All women want me and men want to be like me.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Personality wise? Absolutely! I've been told I have a fiery temperament and don't put up with nonsense

Looks wise? Apparently not, as guys don't seem to look at me in that way. Hell, I don't even get called cute, much less hot, LOL. I would consider myself "average" at best. I'm not hot, but I'm not that bad to look at, or I don't think so at least.

Yads_Is_Back · Answer

I’m hot in both looks and temper. Don’t mess with me.

1Sophisticatedme · Answer

Nope not hot, just plain and simple.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

Well, to me hotness isn't just about physical looks, it's also about a person's personality and what they educated themselves on. Intelligence can be sexy when you use it for in the bedroom. I see certain clothing as hot such as button down shirts with a printed cami, tank top, or bralette underneath (1 or 2 buttons down works). I think sweaters paired with leggings or tights is another one if it's long enough to cover your butt or thighs. Knee socks, thigh highs, stockings, any long sock garment. I also find glovelets (fingerless gloves) hot if used with the right clothes.

JackSmy · Answer

To me, "Hot" is a woman that ASSUMES she is at least my equal, and knows where she wants to eat, sometimes just pays the check, and we share things, mutually. I'm tired of trying to figure out the ones that just don't know where they want to eat, or what they want to do, and put it all on the guy, then complain later, when they don't like what he chose.
"Hot" to me is a personality AND physical things, not just her wearing something 'slutty'.
I want her to feel like she can say what she wants, and likes, and how, and she SHOULD enjoy our time together! I don't want some submissive that just hates me, because she won't say what she wants, and then hates when I can't read her mind, and just know.
Answering the question, but maybe not how you intended. Sorry. . .

Jjpayne · Answer

I can't say that confidence is not attractive but confidence is not exactly a place I'm at this moment but a nice well shaped body with clothes that show it off, being well groomed and smelling fresh all add to attraction for me and hotness.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

In my youth I was pretty average on looks, maybe a 6 or 7. I knew this, and let it control me - I was shy, had no confidence, and all of my friends got way more dates and girlfriends than I did.

I got older and while most everyone else got tired and aged looking, I still look young, still haven't gone grey, and would say I've moved up to 7 to 8 on the scale physically.

The big difference is that once I realized that for my age group that I was at the higher tier of attractiveness, I got confidence and that made every bit of difference when it came to dating and external relationships. I've since realized that the only thing I was missing when I was young was a good bit of confidence, and no small amount of wisdom and 'having my shit together'.

Life is good now!

Avicenna · Answer

I guess you'd have to ask someone who knows what I look like. I think I'm average.

Dargil · Answer

To me the word "Hot" is the effect they have on me. This girl is not objectively hot looking in terms of her assets, but the first time I saw this pic, my knees got weak... and I was sitting down! I immediately saved it to the drive. It has never stopped stirring me when I look at it. And she's  dressed!

0112358 · Answer

I don’t feel hot because reasons.  but I feel hotter than I did 3 months ago anyway.

LemiaOfTheCodes · Answer

How attractive aomeone plays as much part as a girls breast size to me. If she has an attractive Personality and warming heart then We'll get along. (I joke I would rather date a girl with pubes then one without) but what she looks like naked isn't important.

hikerunbeer · Answer

I think hot is a state of mind. To have the confidence to know who you are and move with that internal certainty in everything you do.

I feel "hot" when I challenge myself physically. When I move with purpose to reach a goal.

For me there are different kinds of "hot" when it comes to women. I think it's very attractive when a woman likes to push her physical boundaries. I think it's really hot when a woman is happy with herself and has the determination to slay her goals.

I think runner girls can be really attractive. 🏃‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏼‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I guess I can be as Hot as they can come by? LMAO

TCredo · Answer

lol... come here with those hot flashes Toots :) Hell yes I feel like I am hot... what defines it or why I find someone hot... well... that'll take lots of writing and editing because my core and how my core feels is what drives all of that and if just let to speak its thoughts would come across as gibberish... what's hot is hot and what's not is not... the details in between, while likely wordy, are useless... :)

Zeus_66 · Answer

The eye of the beholder defines it, for themself.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Attraction wise lol I wouldn't describe myself as hot, most people see me as cute.

Temperature wise I get very hot when I work out, when I'm at work or when I'm working outside on stuff or generally doing any kind of labor or physical activity.

douride2 · Answer

No I am like most only average.

Desconhecida · Answer

I laughed about the update.
Well, the only person who really need to find me hot is myself. And I do. Even my body turn me on because I learned how to be in love with me first.
So, being hot or not, I'm awesome! LOL
~~ and modest ~~

Grond21 · Answer

I would say that I have attractive qualities. I don't know that I would think I'm hot

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

I consider me like a frog when a princess would kiss I might turn into a prince lol🐸😂

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