Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I'm personally not into it and here's why...
*Prefer raw sex-what was the point of getting my tubes taken care of at 27 if I still have to use condoms 🤷🏼♀️ And casual sex with no condom is playing Russian roulette with STD's...
*There's sex acts I wouldn't do with random hook-ups/casual sex- I ain't sucking no dick that's recently been in another female's pussy or ass or possibly some dude's ass 🤷🏼♀️
*Sex in a committed relationship with one person is the best way (in my opinion) to really get to know each other sexually, sexual likes/dislikes, turn ons/turn offs...
What Girls & Guys Said
26 61Sex is so much better when in love with the person. Casual sex just doesn't sound nearly as satisfying.
💯 true
No.
I am married and I've always been into committed boyfriend/girlfriend intimacy... not drunk stranger sex from clubs and bars and getting with people that have been with 25 different people intimately.
Exactly!!!
No, it’s not pleasurable because there is no bond like there is with a partner. I hear you on oral dec either- If only eat out a girlfriend.
Right!! I'd rather have no sex, then sex where I can't fully be myself sexually and I couldn't/wouldn't with someone that is having sex with other people... Not virtue signaling, just saying what I can and can't personally accept
Exactly. Hookups are risky and not as enjoyable.
Exactly!!
friends with benefits has always gone the best personally. I'd only close a relationship if I really wanted to, but so far it hasn't appealed to me.
I'm into it. I dunno, its fun and if we're good friends we can just chill after. It's like a win win.
Honestly they all serve a purpose. I’ve done all of them. But I’ve always been skeptical of the casual/hookups. So I’ve preferred a friend with benefits just for the reason of being friends “almost” remove the worries of std’s for me just thinking that a friend wouldn’t want to cause me harm.
With that being said I’m halfway I prefer relationships, but for my pleasure as well as theirs I’ll do a friends with benefits.
At this point of time I can't even imagine anything like that, j can't even imagine being in multiple relationships. Im sticking with my one.
That's the best in my opinion
My playful days are behind only interested in serious relationships now.
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No. Not anymore. I quit because I found it too emotionally draining and not worth the momentary pleasure. Even when I did do it I mostly just stuck to oral or playing with each other.
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I have no interest in one night stands of drunken hookups. I think they are too risky and I just wouldn't feel comfortable with them. That said, I'm pretty inexperienced so ideally I probably would have a slew of exclusive casual friends with benefit/fuckbuddy type 'relationships' to catch up to where the average girl is at before considering anything serious/long term. That being said I think girls are arguably a lot more picky, especially in regards to looks and charisma when it comes to casual sex. So finding a girl willing to have sex in a relationship is a lot easier than finding one who is willing to be fuck buddies.
I am not into it... lol
Better not young lady 👁️👁️👀 momma said so 😂😂
LOL 😂 I get too attached to do that stuff. 🤣
👍👍 you deserve more than that anyways!!❤️🤗
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I'm not into it just never know whose disease-free or not?
Right! Exactly! And no sex worth that
Into it, I was when I was single, it's handy and if you both manage to communicate some rules beforehand to avoid catching feelings or whatever
Just saying it tho, might not stop it from happening anyways... My friend and her husband years ago tried an open marriage and agreed no jealousy... But do you think that's what happened? And are they still married? Yeah, no
Oh ha in a relationship? Marriage? Ya that's just a matter of time until it dies. I wouldn't do that. When I was single I had a friends with benefits, but cut it off the moment I started to date again
When I was a horny young punk, wanted that. Been when I did get it. I really didn't want it.
To me it was a lust fantisy, then when I really got it. Turned out thats not what I wanted.
So sometimes when you get what you wish for, you really didn't want the wish.
Am i making sence
Well said, and very true
Well there is another movie for my queue "Casual Sex"
Oh yeah i be down for it If that's where all it went, but i don't wanna deal with feelings heard that happens
Casual sex is fine, sometimes it's just a matter of convenience. You hang out with friends, do things together, but somehow end up in the same bed and sleeping overnight together. Nothing wrong with that, can even blossom into a non-mono relationship where kissing each other goodnight doesn't exactly mean exclusive.
You make excellent points. Just as a general rule, I prefer peace in my life over chaos. Everybody I know who engages in the hook-ups\ casual sex\ friends with benefits lifestyle, have chaotic lives. There is always some big crisis and looming disaster in their lives. That's just not how I want to live. Nobody talks about the enormous cost these people pay doing what they do.
And hey, if that's what they want, who am I to tell them not too?
I like peace, simplicity and joy. And I want to be with somebody who basically feels the same way. I don't need 2 or 3 for the sake of ego.
Very well said!!! Couldn't agree more!!!💯
That's about the hottest treason you could give
No I am not in casual intercourse, for the same reasons you stated.
It's just too risky on several different fronts.
💯 agree there
I used to be. As much as I could get.
But I was wasting myself.
My current and best wife saw the damage that had been done to me and the damage I was doing to myself and the damage that I would have started doing to our relationship. She saw the man she loved beneath the scarred surface. She loved me through the pain I was causing and got me the help I needed. Therapy... to help me work through my childhood sexual abuse that started when I was 4 years old and the sex addiction when I was an adult.
That's when I stopped seeking out anything or anyone other than my wife.
I loved it when I was broken and searching for healing, sex was my drug. It wasn't healing anything. My wife's love and learning to love myself is what brought me out of my dark place.
That is so great that she was able to help you! That's real love there!!
I've never been so humbled than by being loved by someone that I didn't deserve...😭
But you did deserve it after wouldn't of loved you
*or she (not* it after) 🤦
Some things in life I'm still trying to figure out but... when it's finally this good after so much misery in my life... I'm just happy to be here.
Aww 👍👍(omg I really need my glasses, almost accidentally sent middle finger emoji 🤣)
I would have given you the benefit of the doubt
Lololol good to know just in case 🤣
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