Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I'm personally not into it and here's why...
*Prefer raw sex-what was the point of getting my tubes taken care of at 27 if I still have to use condoms 🤷🏼♀️ And casual sex with no condom is playing Russian roulette with STD's...
*There's sex acts I wouldn't do with random hook-ups/casual sex- I ain't sucking no dick that's recently been in another female's pussy or ass or possibly some dude's ass 🤷🏼♀️
*Sex in a committed relationship with one person is the best way (in my opinion) to really get to know each other sexually, sexual likes/dislikes, turn ons/turn offs...
What Girls & Guys Said
26 61I'm into having casual sex and have happily gone raw many times in the past. Majority of the sex was great and I really enjoyed it 😉👌
No casual hookups have never been my thing. I have always had to have some sort of a relationship going before I bedded down with a guy. I think it may have had something to do with my strict Baptist mother being brought up in a Catholic boarding school.
I agree... a relationship is better and so is the sex that way
I’m just glad that there are enough women out there that are ok with it. Not only would single men, like myself, be in trouble. But we wouldn’t even be having this discussion.
As opposed to "formal sex" ? LOL
Hmmm... only if my S. O. wants to join in or approves, and the girl is reaaaalllly attractive and smart. :-D
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I used to hookup with girls at the river mostly underwater stuff when no one was looking. Now I'm in a relationship so I don't
... Do I look like the kinda guy who'd be able to even have something akin to a relationship like that? ... No, I don't.
You know me well miss brains muffins, i'm not into such things at all 😌
I'm like you and sex should happen after marriage and only with the guy or girl that you will marry...
👍👍 or at least long term committed relationship
😊👍🏻👍🏻 I heard that the freshly baked muffins makes a forever marriage and a powerful wild sex 😁
🤣🤣🤣 magical muffin🧁
You can stuff the muffin with raisin miss brains, i heard that it contains sexual benefits 😋
Everything about miss brains is magical, also her SPONGY forehead 😬😬
Ha that's probably the only part of my body that's NOT spongy 🤣
How are you doing miss brains today is Sunday, shouldn't i receive a delicious meals made by your hands and surely made with love 🤤
Was going to make pecan crusted pork chops but my daughter won't be back till tomorrow so maybe I'll make em tomorrow instead
Yum yum, that's nice miss brains, i wanna try them and if they were delicious i'll kiss your spongy forehead instead of biting so i recharge your brain with power so it keeps making the most delicipus meals 😁👍🏻
Lololol
I only want a LTR. A life partner. To me, dating is seeking the answer to “do I want to marry this person?”. Sex comes after marriage.
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Haha, I bet you have sucked on one that’s been up another dude. Haha. Most guys are deviants.
🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮 I know my hubby didn't cuz he barely left the house... The last person I had sex with, I fear you may be right but that's why wouldn't do that cuz umm yeah didn't trust it but that's also why it ended
Live and learn buddy. Haha, It’s smart to be sceptical. But if I thought about that Pepsi cola joke, cracking open a brand knew one or drinking from one that had nine dicks in it, I would never have another relationship. Personally I think you should just use condoms anyway, till you get tested.
Oh I got tested...
Besides I'm not even having sex
But for arguments sake if you do want a relationship.
With the way people are with relationships these days uh yeah no thanks...
I could be wrong, I think most women fear being judged, or have a hard time expressing what they want sexually if it's out of the "norm". With hook-ups and casual sex, I feel like women are more open to communicating what they want or living out a fantasy without me. I guess since we won't see each other, they don't worry about me thinking they are a bad person, because of their sexual kinks. In my past serious relationships, it takes girls so long to tell me if they have any kinks, fantasies, or any thing they like sexually that they think I won't approve of. I am a very opened minded person. Especially when it comes to sex. (no pun intended). I even had a couple of girlfriends try to tell me, that they never masturbated. I knew they were full of crap. lol. I do believe some women don't like porn and I do get that. But with hook-ups and ONS, I like that women are more comfortable with being the sexual, kinky girls. And I am able to satisfy them and make them happy.
See and I'm the opposite... I'm more open sexually with someone I know and can trust and have that sexual connection with that for me wouldn't happen with random hook up
I think it's wonderful that you feel comfortable communicating your needs. But let me ask you a question, do you have any special kinks, unusual sexual fantasies or desires? You don't have to be specific, only yes or no please. And If yes, how long before you are willing to talk with you boyfriend about it?
Yes and right away if he's committed to me and as open honest with me as I am with him
That's wonderful Beauty. Unfortunately not all women are like you. I think some women need a little alcohol and Anonymity to enjoy themselves sexually. You are amazing Brainsbeforebeauty.
Not really amazing... Just old enough to be too old to play games... It just screws things up (and not in a good way lolol 🙃🙂)
I agree with you sister sledge. The faster we stop with the games, the quicker we can start enjoying life. But I still think you are amazing. :)
I'm into it. Mainly because I struggle connecting with people on a romantic level.
No I think it's unhygienic and potentially dangerous.
Right!! Agree 💯 cuz people ain't just too casual about sex these days they waaay to casual about unprotected sex smh🤦
It has happened a couple of times but not really into it.
I prefer to know her more than just for sex..
Agree there!
I have to be in a relationship cuz i want to be with a person i really care for
That's the best way in my opinion
Yep 👍
Im looking for forever if it exists
Forever doesn't exist... But for our lifetime or theirs can
@brainsbeforebeauty at 44.. I will take whatever "Forever" maybe... a week, a month, 2 months.
👍👍 know what you mean, imma be 49 this year, which means a year away from 50😱😱😱
Kind of a male version of you, but I think my vasectomy came a year later because it took a while to convince my dad I actually wanted it.
👍👍 Even with two kids and troubled pregnancies it seemed like doctor was trying to talk me into not doing it, tho he did do it... But I was actually pregnant 4 times, but just two daughters, one of which was VERY premature, (she healthy 24 yr old now but was given 5% chance of living)
I think doctors are supposed to make results clear. Also I think that with girls there's almost no case of a reversal while guys generally can get a successful one.
That's true
Not. Besides some of your answer, things have never ended well.
Exactly I never got why they call it friends with benefits, cuz usually once the benefits end so does the supposed friendship...,🤷🏼♀️
I have STD TESTING done once a month, I had a vesectomy many years ago, so I fuck often and all the girls have also been STD tested.
I like a committed tested partner and we vow not to cheat each other, just leave.
Then we fuck raw, like nature intended.
I hate hook up culture, it destroyies relationships, not only romantic ones, but even friendships. One of my highschool friends was never the same after he became a fuckboy.
I agree... People think friendship means sex now 🤷🏼♀️