Are You Into Or Not Into Casual Sex/Hook-Ups/Friends W/Benefits? Why Or Why Not?

Are You Into Or Not Into Casual Sex/Hook-Ups/Friends W/Benefits? Why Or Why Not?
Are You Into Or Not Into Casual Sex/Hook-Ups/Friends W/Benefits? Why Or Why Not?
My answer:
I'm personally not into it and here's why...
*Prefer raw sex-what was the point of getting my tubes taken care of at 27 if I still have to use condoms 🤷🏼‍♀️ And casual sex with no condom is playing Russian roulette with STD's...
*There's sex acts I wouldn't do with random hook-ups/casual sex- I ain't sucking no dick that's recently been in another female's pussy or ass or possibly some dude's ass 🤷🏼‍♀️
*Sex in a committed relationship with one person is the best way (in my opinion) to really get to know each other sexually, sexual likes/dislikes, turn ons/turn offs...
Are You Into Or Not Into Casual Sex/Hook-Ups/Friends W/Benefits? Why Or Why Not?
I'm into it
Vote A
Are You Into Or Not Into Casual Sex/Hook-Ups/Friends W/Benefits? Why Or Why Not?
I'm not into it
Vote B
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  • Personally, I would not like it. I want a relationship, because if I get her pregnant then I would want to be the father that my child would deserve. I see it as providing for my child if I am able to be in the picture.

    • Nice to hear !!

    • I care too much, if I have a kid I would rather have a happy family so that the child would have an example of what a family is

    • I hope you get to experience that!

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  • its a tough question, sex is better if there is a personal connection at some level, sex with strangers is not as satisfying as masturbating,,, NOT serious. But I like to have something in common with my lovers

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  • Before I had a steady girlfriend, I was very much into it. I think in many ways this was an expression of my sex addiction. The sex addiction sounds like it might be fun but I can tell you from experience that it's absolutely miserable.

    • I believe it

  • I'm definitely into it.
    Although I know the risks, I'd try it. Experimenting.
    I know STD is a thing, but I have few condoms, even though I never had sex. Just in case 😂

    • Lolol

  • I’m not into it.
    I don’t find any charm in sleeping around. I’d much prefer a simple relationship with genuine feelings.

    • Right! Exactly! Same here!

  • I would if it came up, but I do not see that happening, mostly because it never has.

  • no. I'm not a dog.

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  • When your single you need it somewhere, its not a bad thing

  • I don't know but I think that I definitely would be if it wasn't strictly a one time thing, because you could be strictly friends without developing anything and risk being torn apart again

  • I voted A, but with lot of caveats! I have friends with benefits that I get together with on a regular basis. They know about each other. I don't casually hook up for a one night stand with strangers. I have had some one night stands with women in my social circle (so not strangers).

  • Me too i prefer to have relationship and have sex but i wouldn't say no to the other way

  • Depends on the lady

  • I'm into serious relationsship.

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  • lololololololololololol

  • Personally I am unsure. I am considering asking a coworker if she would be into a casual sex relationship since she is fairly interested in me despite our age difference. That said I don’t want to risk my job over casually fooling around with her outside of work.

    • Yeah it's usually best not to mix business and "pleasure"

  • My first time was with my first love thank God. It was amazing. We eventually broke up and I then much later hooked up with a guy who I knew was a player but my ex had hurt my feelings through text and it was a BIG mistake. It was short and awkward and not satisfying at all. I will never have sex with someone I don’t love ever again

    • Yeah, it's never worth it in the long run... Someone that loves you and respects you, the sex will be better as well

  • Couldn't agree more. I think most kids think it'll never happen to them (a STD). A younger guy i worked with the other day told me " basically every girl has herpes anymore so what's the difference.

    • Omg that's just all kinds of wrong 🤦

    • What's wrong is he wasn't kidding around. Lol

    • Yeah that's disturbing and sad all at the same time!!

  • It gets boring after a year and makes you feel even more empty and lonely.

    • I would think it would

  • No absolutely no. Not worth it.

    • I agree 💯

    • And women don't do or want casual sed anyway

    • Some do, some don't... Same as men

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  • If I am not married to you, you're not getting into my pants

    • 👍👍👍

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