Are you mostly vanilla or kinky?

Porn would have us believe that most of us are kinky. Most people aren’t kinky according to studies.
Are you mostly vanilla or kinky?
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  • Depends on what kinky is defined as…I think the kinkiest things I like are having hands tied/restrained and being praised lmao

    • It’s hard to define which is why I said mostly kinky. Many say anal is vanilla while others think of it as kinky.

    • I think you are most;y vanilla as people were doing that a lot long before today’s porn and prolapse porn, heavy BDSM etc.

    • Yeah I’d say I’m mostly vanilla

  • Kinky with a vanilla boyfriend.

    • Have you told him or hinted to him what you like?

    • Been there... done that. A leopard can't change their spots

    • True. I hope it works out for you and your boyfriend though.

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  • I'm vanilla by nature n preference, but it doesn't stop me from the occasional kink.

    • Of course.

  • I don’t do porn but always been kinky.

    remembering Vanilla is missionary position and not much else, oral sex was taboo and kinky.

    the link below covers the subjective topic of Vanilla, note also Vanilla changes over the years.

    https://www.vice.com/en/article/vbw3bj/when-it-comes-to-vanilla-sex-kink-no-two-people-taste-the-same-flavor

  • Yeah. I hardly watch porn and I know I'm kinky.

  • Definitely vanilla.

  • I am things, many

  • I’ve been kinky for years.

    • Yep. Profile checks out. I am incapable of inflicting pain during sex. Maybe I could do some spankings but nothing that leads to serious pain.

    • Hmmm, I think I replied to the wrong person. Sorry.

  • I’m up for almost anything but I need my partner to be kinky and initiate. Unfortunately that’s not the case :(

  • Somewhere in between the two.

    • What do you think pushes it out of vanilla? Light bondage seems a common theme here but that is vanilla since it’s be going in forever in society.

  • A mix of both

    • What pushes the edge? Light bondage?

  • kinky

  • I like to change it up and try new things.

  • 50/50 depends on how i feel

  • I'm kinky 😝

  • I think most of us are kinky because we all have turn ons.

    • Yes, that is why I said mostly vanilla. Being horny and getting erect doesn’t mean I want to do a lot of things that are at the extreme.

  • A lot of it depends on my partner

    • Kinky it is then.

  • Not entirely sure. I like the idea of being tied up, blindfolded, getting spanked, tying him up, sitting on his face, etc. Am I kinky?

    • I think that falls into vanilla today. Light bondage has been around forever it seems. I am vanilla but don’t do that but I do like a bit of face sitting. The first time a girl did that I was taken aback but the organs she had was amazing.

    • Orgasms*. Lol. It was hot.

    • That would be awesome!!

  • Mixture. Always been open minded to prevent boredom, but also who I am, eccentric. Some things can be fun.

    • Light bondage I am guessing.

    • Ice. Hot wax. Different places. KS. Things that aren’t exactly abusive, but still fun.