I honestly don't mind it when my man does especially since I know it only really occurs when I'm exhausted.
We have two kids, he works 10 hour days as a lead roofer, I'm a stay at home mom with our 2 yr old, am very involved in my kids & their development & am currently in night school. We also are involved in other activities; our girls take gymnastics weekly, I do a mommy & me paint class every Saturday & he has soccer practice on Thrus & games Sunday. We also try to make the most outta the weekend with our kids whether that's movie night at home or in the theater, a drive outta town, a theme/water park or just night painting & camping out in the backyard.
We usually have sex sessions Mon- Thurs with the exception of him being too tired after work. We also have us-time every few weekends when the girls go to either his or my parents'.
From Fri- Sun however, there's literally little to no sex. That's where the porn comes into play. He'll watch a flick or two Friday night, & one on Sat night & skip it on Sunday because soccer games kill him. He sporadically watches it on other days too which is totally fine with me as well. I mean, once you dip your finger in the cookie jar... Lol
I also don't mind it because I feel it adds character to him. He's a very sexually creative man & he sometimes finds new angles & themes for our bedroom.
He constantly complements my beauty both inside & out & was as crazy about me when I gained weight carrying our 2 yr old (60lbs 😬) as he is now. We have days where we want to choke the last breath out of each other but I try to be my best version since he's a pretty great man in general. I feel completely secure in my relationship on multiple levels & him watching porn is so insignificant... I don't place my energy where it isn't necessary.
I know plenty of people who refuse to allow their men/women to watch porn & I wasn't sure how I felt about it at 1st but it works for us. How about you?
Are you okay with letting your girl/guy watch porn? Why or why not?
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17 21I don't mind her doing it
no. porn is very damaging to a relationship.
No I would not. And if he argues with me about it then I would leave him.
if she wants to she can. but porn is really disgusting to me
ditto
It's fine if she watches porn
It's up to them if they want to be a sleazebag. If it got too bad I'd leave.
She's not allowed to watch porn
Absolutely! I can't be there 24/7 to stop her. She has her own free will.
not married so not sure...
Fine with my girlfriend watching porn as long as she doesn't get addicted. Don't watch it myself. Too unrealistic.
I'm fine if he watches porn because I do as well
My girlfriend loves to watch porn, but I get bored watching it.
Wow, I thought all guys like porn. What kind does she watch?
@kiradavis She likes BBC stuff. lol
What stuff?
@kiradavis Big Black Cocks.
LOL Yeah, that's all over the porn sites.
😂😂😂
I thought everyone watched it.
Same here, so I'm with you when you're right. Unfortunately, as I've been finding out, that isn't always the case.