Are you okay with letting your girl/guy watch porn? Why or why not?

I honestly don't mind it when my man does especially since I know it only really occurs when I'm exhausted.

We have two kids, he works 10 hour days as a lead roofer, I'm a stay at home mom with our 2 yr old, am very involved in my kids & their development & am currently in night school. We also are involved in other activities; our girls take gymnastics weekly, I do a mommy & me paint class every Saturday & he has soccer practice on Thrus & games Sunday. We also try to make the most outta the weekend with our kids whether that's movie night at home or in the theater, a drive outta town, a theme/water park or just night painting & camping out in the backyard.

We usually have sex sessions Mon- Thurs with the exception of him being too tired after work. We also have us-time every few weekends when the girls go to either his or my parents'.

From Fri- Sun however, there's literally little to no sex. That's where the porn comes into play. He'll watch a flick or two Friday night, & one on Sat night & skip it on Sunday because soccer games kill him. He sporadically watches it on other days too which is totally fine with me as well. I mean, once you dip your finger in the cookie jar... Lol

I also don't mind it because I feel it adds character to him. He's a very sexually creative man & he sometimes finds new angles & themes for our bedroom.

He constantly complements my beauty both inside & out & was as crazy about me when I gained weight carrying our 2 yr old (60lbs 😬) as he is now. We have days where we want to choke the last breath out of each other but I try to be my best version since he's a pretty great man in general. I feel completely secure in my relationship on multiple levels & him watching porn is so insignificant... I don't place my energy where it isn't necessary.

I know plenty of people who refuse to allow their men/women to watch porn & I wasn't sure how I felt about it at 1st but it works for us. How about you?
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  • I don't mind her doing it

  • no. porn is very damaging to a relationship.

  • No I would not. And if he argues with me about it then I would leave him.

  • if she wants to she can. but porn is really disgusting to me

    • ditto

  • It's fine if she watches porn

  • It's up to them if they want to be a sleazebag. If it got too bad I'd leave.

  • She's not allowed to watch porn

  • Absolutely! I can't be there 24/7 to stop her. She has her own free will.

  • not married so not sure...

  • Fine with my girlfriend watching porn as long as she doesn't get addicted. Don't watch it myself. Too unrealistic.

  • I'm fine if he watches porn because I do as well

  • My girlfriend loves to watch porn, but I get bored watching it.

    • Wow, I thought all guys like porn. What kind does she watch?

    • @kiradavis She likes BBC stuff. lol

    • What stuff?

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  • I thought everyone watched it.

    • Same here, so I'm with you when you're right. Unfortunately, as I've been finding out, that isn't always the case.