As a man, do you like giving anal? As a woman, do you like getting anal? How was your first anal experience? How did it feel?

Question

My first anal experience was in Vegas with three of my male friends.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I enjoy anal sex (giving) with a woman. Many women don't like it, but the ones who do tend to love it.

In my experience it's an acquired taste for women. For most, their first experience is usually unpleasant, partly because it feels different from anything they have experienced, and partly (mostly?) because most guys have no idea how to do it right.

For a woman to learn to enjoy anal, there are generally two requirements. First, she has to have the right mindset and be willing to try it at least a few times before deciding whether she likes it. And second, the guy has to do everything he can to make it as positive an experience for her as possible. The key is for her to have some orgasms during anal sex, or better yet, during anal play with a finger or a smaller toy. Once she discovers how anal stimulation changes her orgasms, most women will be hooked. But many/most never make it that far.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

My girlfriend said "you're so good at it, it's kind of your specialty" and she wasn't wrong. It *is* kind of my specialty. And as a result of being good at it, only a couple of the women I've ever been with didn't enjoy it - the vast majority loved it. In the beginning especially, it's a LOT about building trust with your partner, and making THEIR experience your priority. Eventually it will be your turn (as the guy), but in the beginning, you have to make it all about HER experience until she tells you to go for it. And even then, you have to go easy for a while, and she'll tell you over time when to increase the intensity.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I enjoy it (receiving, not giving), but I didn't at first. Doing it with a guy who knows how to do it properly and cares about the woman's comfort and pleasure makes a huge difference.

Tamera952 · Accepted Answer

‘Giving anal” …. hahahaha lol … Guys love sticking their penis is any ass, receiving is an acquired taste.

normalice · Answer

Yes, it's wonderful. My first was in a catholic dorm. She rode me cowgirl with almost no hesitation. It was a little unfortunate as I assumed all women were that easy to penetrate afterwards, which is very much not the case.

tzdc21 · Answer

I've never done anal before, but it doesn't sound very appealing to me.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

I won’t try it.

Tim2nice · Answer

I like giving it to women only. Not receiving

Hellur991 · Answer

Either or

LiamS95 · Answer

My ex loved it snf got an orgasm from it, I wasn't really into it but did it for her. It was enjoyable but I preferred piv.

genericname85 · Answer

never tried it and tbh it looks cool in porn but reality won't cut the times that you had to mess with poop during a scene out for you xD and i'm not into that part at all.

DrPepper12 · Answer

THREE? Wow! Giving and getting (with toys) is great! Spill the tea on Vegas!!

Jennz6 · Answer

My first time it really was painful

bolverk · Answer

I'd only do it if I have a load of prep time and have built the necessary trust with a partner, Its not a spur of the moment thing to do. To do it forcefully without prep can hurt both sides and get very messy.

kellytheman · Answer

I have only done anal once and it was a bad experience. Me and my girlfriend at the time was experimenting and decided to try it. It hurt her and me maybe cause we did use enough lube or we was not prepared or ready for it I never tried it again. Right now my friends with benefits who has had anal sex has been asking if I want to give it another go who is experienced but I am not sure.