At what point in a relationship is it “safe” to send nudes?

When is it ok to send nudes without fear of them being leaked/shown to friends etc
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Superb Opinion

  • Are you a trusting/loving/caring sort, and think that relationships are based on love and trust? Then, as soon as you feel that trust and love!
    I want that to be how things are, and sharing all the good things, and just smiling, at lunch, when she sends me a video of herself masturbating, and then signs off, with "couldn't wait until I got home!" just teasing, and knowing I will love it!!

Most Helpful Girls

  • There will never be a time when you can trust that your nudes won't leak out. All it takes is a jilted lover or some bad feeling for someone to "get even" by spreading your pics on the internet. If you don't send any you never have to worry about it. And really, is this the only way a girl has to attract some guy? What ever happened to attracting someone with your wholesomeness and personality?

    Tell me another one
    Tell me another one
  • I sent mine and i regret it now please don’t do that and i hope that mine doesn't end up on the internet someday

Most Helpful Guy

  • Marriage. I don’t trust a damn soul in this situation other then the wife. You break up and they still grudging about you, so they leak compromising pics they still got. It’s like getting a tattoo of the name of someone who still is considered a temporary partner.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Why not instead of sending the guy nudes just go out with him and show him then.
    Or use Snapchat so you can see if he screenshots it or not

  • When the emotional connection is strong enough that you are having frequent, raucous sex.

  • It is safe when you are absolutely guaranteed that you and he will never break up.

  • Girls sending them to guys there's never a safe time if a guy has a nude picture probably even of his mother he would show it to someone that's just the way guys are

    • I guess I have basic decency since I've never shared someone else's nudes. Crazy

    • We aren't just like that, gimme a break. People come in all shapes and colors. Some guys will do that just as some women would do the same if they got nudes. Others respect privacy.

  • Just assume there will always be a possibility though I don't understand why people would share other people's nudes.

  • any relationship, however solid, can end at some point so realistically never would be the corrct answer but its up to you i guess

  • When you have seen each other naked in person.

  • Just when you trust him enough, I'd say. I don't imagine there's any specific point that's particularly safe to start sending nudes.

  • never

  • If you trust him completely, for a 1000%.

  • Never really safe just have to hope the others ain't a complete knob🤷🏻‍♀️

  • I would say at least six months if not longer. But It really depends on how you feel.

  • It really depends on trust

  • I respect my girl and she respects me. If she sends them to me, she knows that they are for my use only.
    I would never disrespect her by sharing them.

  • Its depend on that person

  • if I've been dating a girl for anything more than 2 months and MY nudes get leaked I still think im winning. that shit could go all tge way to my grandmother and I wouldn't care very much.

  • I don’t think it’s ever totally safe, but don’t show your face if you’re gonna do it

  • Not right away but after a good few months. Suppose it's ok

  • When you're married to each other. Even then people like to hack other people electronic devices, so never really safe regardless if you actually can trust the intended recipient.

  • when you fully trust the person

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