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Sexual Health Guys, bf doesn't cuddle much after sex, why? does he not love me?
Anonymous
My bf doesn't enjoy cuddling after sex much. He'll hold me for a few minutes. very little time. If i get up to get a drink or use the washroom he's already doing something else by the time i get back. I told him that it bothers me. And he said he doesn't like cuddling, but tries his best for me. He said he will work on it. But if he loved me shouldn't he want to cuddle for a while not just a few minutes? Its awkward that he has to try and cuddle with me.
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What Guys Said
(21)He may just feel the job is done and that's all folks kinda attitude kicks in let him do without awhile see what happens it just as important what you do after sex as before
I know most guys don't like cuddling, for me thats the best part of sex the afterglow
Hard to say. A lot of guys apparently like to just pass out after sex.
After ejaculation, a guy feels... spent. You get really exhausted, emotionally distant, and you just want to fall asleep.
probably because he is shattered
What do you mean?
after men ejaculate a hormone is release which makes us feel tired
well this might sound rude buh he seems like a sex maniac i am sorry no better way to put this.
ask him that you need the cuddling after sex and that it is very important for you
Well i would enjoy a good cuddle after sex and it mite spark the next round of love making.
Don't take it personally, he probably just doesn't care for it as much as you do. It doesn't mean anything.