Bought a mini vibrator to stimulate my clit but how come I don't feel aroused or have any orgasm (My first time)?

Question

Fyi i'm a virgin

Meldrum · Accepted Answer

Being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with getting aroused, clitoris, or otherwise. Getting aroused is different for different people. Had you stimulated your love juices with masturbation before diving right in with the vibrator? Did you cover your clit with a cloth, like a silk shirt, or go right on it with the full force of the vibrator?

My suggestion is to get your love juices going and finger yourself before using the vibrator, or you could use baby oil to get things started. A dry clit and a mechanical device can be painful. Using a silk shirt will shield the clitoris until you start to really feel like you want to cum, then remove the shirt and move around the clit with the vibrator until you're at the edge and if you get on it with the tool, you'll cum like you've ever cum before.

Browneye57 · Accepted Answer

Evidently for women, the sexual response is learned. Do you even know where your clit is? For many, the g-spot stimulation along with clitoral, even anal, sends them over the top.
It may not have enough oomph. Try a rabbit, or a hitachi magic wand.

summiter · Answer

Do you orgasms when you masturbate without the vibe? Try some lube with it, try using your fingers to help and focus on what feels good and do not worry about the orgasm... it will happen if you don't try so hard.

Dargil · Answer

What did you get?

ryckrohan · Answer

Maybe that's not what gets you off. You need to discover what gets you there. It's more than just physical by the way.

Massageman · Answer

Practice makes perfect.

OutdoorsForLife · Answer

You can get aroused by being naughty in your brain. What’s a sexual fantasy of yours?

s2firestar · Answer

Well, you might need to find out what works for you with it.

Xnnnttrzzs · Answer

I suggest taking it out of the box before you put it in

COMMODOREII · Answer

You should have gotten one of these. 😎

Valnac · Answer

You have to be sexually aroused and soaking wet.

Guido · Answer

Keep practicing and find out what feels good. It will happen.

BrianMarks · Answer

Which vibrator did you buy?

EaterPeter · Answer

This your first time with toy. Right?

Cafelocomuyhoornyy · Answer

Explore more to find the sweet spot i guess and listen to hands free orgasm frequencies on YouTube to get you more in the mood

garak99 · Answer

Are you using any visuals to get you excited (photo / video) that helps

Anonymous · Answer

Try coconut oil and take your time. Better than any vibrator (too mechanical)!

Anonymous · Answer

Did you naturally lubricate or use lube such as KY? Were you in a place where you weren't worried about being discovered? Did you feel nervous doing it?