Boyfriend found out I made sextapes with my ex and wants to see them should I show him then?

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AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

No, that would violate your ex's privacy. I'm pretty sure those tapes were made for the enjoyment if you and your ex. Unless he explicitly gives you permission to show them to others, keep them safely hidden. If he does give you permission, note that also means he has permission to show them.

Markm3212 · Accepted Answer

No, what ever you do dont show them to him, he will want to copy the moves or want to go further or something.

suggest that you make new ones with him and he can see them instead, this way no messy ex was large conversations and him feeling bad, and you get to move on

mae39 · Accepted Answer

Definitely do not. I actually came across an old video of my boyfriend and his ex. It caused so many issues and made me super insecure. So for the sake of your boyfriend, do not show him.

tell him you could make your own better and new videos, you’d rather not bring up the past

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

I am sort of in the same situation, old recordings, and pics. Although been making new stuff anyways... forgot about old stuff and found some, I haven't told him yet. He knows I used to, just doesn't know I found some.

laurieluvsit · Answer

It depends if you trust him or not. Then he will tell you he wants a copy, that's where I would draw the line.

Buntyp · Answer

If he doesn't have something equally intimate and at that same level of being potentially compromising, I wouldn't. Quid pro quo.

LingyRolls · Answer

Yes show him! You should touch him and maybe pleasure him while he watches them. Make it a sexy experience for him. After all, you did nothing wrong. It was before him. So he might as well enjoy watching.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

1. WHY did you make porn video with a guy? 2. WHY does your current boyfriend even know about it?

rachel776 · Answer

he's going to say he wants to see them then get really mad when he does

dustybiker · Answer

Awkward.

TazWax · Answer

I would

Luggit · Answer

That's your personal life, and I'm assuming the tapes are from the past. He has no reason to see those tapes, unless you're willing

Fireguy17 · Answer

Probably not the best idea, he might see you doing something with your ex, or react in a better way with your ex than with him, like having stronger or multiple orgasms with your ex.

bowenw · Answer

Delete them.

elizamichale1 · Answer

If u r ok no problems in it darling

Kabluie · Answer

I don't think it's necessary unless you know how he'll react. Are there things you don't do today, is he insecure about other things already? Do you react any differently in the video than you do now. It's loaded but you kind of have to know in some regard because the questions it opens may not be worth it.

Browneye57 · Answer

Absolutely not. Quit doing stupid stuff.

gabby100 · Answer

I would be tempted to show him. But why does he want to see it.

iJokeTeeth · Answer

No, he is probably hoping your ex had a smaller dick and if he doesn't then your boyfriend is gonna obsess over the difference. Just say you deleted them but thought you kept them, don't let him see them unless you're ready to deal with potential insecurities.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No. It's very weird on his part.

Liketheview · Answer

some may jerk off to it, but more likely will be upset and will hurt your relationship. get rid of them. not everyone can handle seeing his lady getting pleasured by another person let alone man. save yourself grief.