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Sexual Health Boyfriend hardly does anything sexual to me... why?
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We've been dating for 9 months. I've given him several blowjobs and in return all he does is grab my butt. If we makeout for more than 30 seconds he pulls away. when i try to kiss him again he stops me and is like "lol babe noo". He's only fingered me once but its been like 7 months since he's done so. We've had plenty of chances to do lots of sexual things, but he won't even put his hand under my shirt or in my pants. He just cuddles with me... Sorta leaving me unsatisfied. We used to sext, but we dont do it anymore. Weird thing is.. he's had plenty of sex with his ex girlfriend (mainly because she kept making him feel bad if he didnt). I dont want to pressure him into anything, but at the same time sorta want what he got from his ex.. What should i do? Or why won't he be sexual with me?
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Update! I asked, his answer was " I dont want you to think I only want you for sex cause thats not true. You're an amazing, funny girl who also happens to be extremely attractive. I had no idea you were feeling this way & next time i'll be sure to put your needs first. Plus I would never talk to any other girls. Its also b/c we're both in college & rarely have alone time. Just being around you leaves me satisfied enough that I dont need sex. I love you so much & if anything, I dont deserve you."
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What Girls & Guys Said
15 25if he doesn't satisfy your needs just get another guy to
Tell him to be a 'real man'
Tell him that you do not feel satisfied.
Don't rush him into anything he doesn't want to do. Just let time take its course
he must have a low sex drive, I don't know what you can do to fix it
that's not your legit boyfriend.
Some people just have very low sex drives and these tend to be the people who aren't willing to please their partner if they aren't in the mood. There is very little you can do apart from tell him how you feel.
He has to be gay
He's cheating on you. Or he isn't into you or he's gay
Have you asked him why?
you should give him an ultimatum.
Firstly talk to him, that would be the most obvious solution :) without being personal and rude, is your hygiene good? A lot of men can be unsatisfied by this and be put off... which I'm sure isn't your case. An alternative could be that his attention is on someone else... or maybe he just isn't that sexually active at all?
Because he doesn't find you attractive like that
He's not into you sexually, perhaps he is gay
Dump his ass for a real man