Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I love him but he is making me insecure. He always makes sexual jokes about other girls, some of them are really nasty (like he points out a girl and tells how would he f*** that girl). He also makes fun of my body and compares me to the women in porns and tells i would be so sexy if my breast look like them. I told him they are not real then he compared me with his old partners.
He shatters my self esteem and when i talk to him about this he blames me for being “too sensitive” and “not able to take a joke”, “doesn’t have a sense of humour”. He makes fun of things that i can not change. I mean what can i do about it? It doesn’t end here. Im thinking of getting a licence and he told me that i dont have the skills to be a good driver. I got mad and told him he couldnt know that and he keeps insisting that i have to “accept my deficiencies like ” he accepts his own”. It really annoys me how immature and mean he is. He keeps saying stuff like that then he says he was just joking i can't handle a joke, Im the prettiest girl to him and im smart and capable of everything. After hearing all that stuff this means nothing to me. I feel like he’s slurring over after i get mad, and mean what he said.
Im not a shallow person but im way out of his league and it would be great if he appreciated me. I always motivate him and compliment him. I love every inch of him but i get this in return.
Boyfriend and his degrading “jokes” ?
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13 34From this question and the previous one everyone can tell you your boyfriend is an asshole, and everyone is going to tell you to dump his loser ass. How long will it take you to realize he's a waste of time?
Deep down i know that but my feelings mess with my logic Thank you
Based off of this alone, you should dump him. This is disrespectful. Unacceptale behaviour
Sounds like Your wasting Your time on him, and certainly wasting Your breath!
Most people who do/say such things are insecure with themselves, so instead of analyzing their own deficiencies and trying to better themselves; its easier to hack on someone else , usually, someone close ( You )! Sorry to say, hell probably never change, he might make halfhearted attempts, or beg you for more chances... but , he won't see the light until it's too late!
the best medicine for him ,... when You're both together, and he starts in ; just blow him off, act very nonchalant, when he makes one of his
" so called " jokes , look at him in slight disgust, and yawn , great big ! Good luck !
If it doesn't change in a month , I'd find myself someone worthy of (Me)
"YOU" !
Thanks!!
You're very welcome! Have a great day!
You know what you need to do.
Nevere go behind anything which harms your self confidence and self esteeem. Self esteem and self confidence defines you and if you leave that behind it will effect your character. Think well and take decision all the best
He is so mean at you. I'm really really sorry. This is just not acceptable. Oh gosh!
I don't understand how guys like these get girls even though they degrade girl's self esteem like this.
I'm sure if I were you, I'd break up with him. This is getting toxic. I'd never be in a toxic relationship.
PS I'VE NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP BUT I CAN FEEL HOW BAD IT FEELS
He didn’t use to be like that. I loved him for being kind and always making me feel like Im the best, he was so scared that he could harm me he was always careful how he acted with me. This years he is going through some emotional problems. He has turned wicked. He wasn’t always like that. This is the reason why it hurts me so much. I watched him turn toxic, he is the first person i fell in love with and im too attached. I always try to think that he will be like just the “old days” over time. We broke up 2 times and ended up together each time he can't seem to stay away from me either. He was the one that brokeup but he came back afterwards
I'm sorry girl. It's your life. Handle anyway
He is just immature and doesn’t realize what an idiot he is being, surprised you’re dealing with it without dumping already, I think you need an older guy
Why on earth r u with him? U never see guys complaining about there girlfriend this much lol, they stand by their decision. I always see women complaining about their boyfriend tho. Here’s a thought
if you’re so unhappy and he's such a piece of shit, leave him!!!
You need a new boyfriend
Not worth ur time
He sounds like he’s very unhealthy in a relationship! I would be very careful going forward with him. Don’t let him hurt you you’re worth more than that
It's time to accept that is who he is... he is degrading and insulting to you and all women. If i was you i would dump him as fast as you can and move on to a better class man because he is still a boy and has no class... sorry to say he isn't worth another minute of your life...
I guess you're right
Unfortunately, its always hard to see. Its just a sign that your a good person and try to look past a person's flaws... sometimes you just can't and have to worry about your own feelings...😊
tell him you don't like this behavior, if it doesn't work - leave him. Is it the same boyfriend who hides you from his ex? Then definitely drop his sorry ass like yesterday!
Time to dump his sorry ass
Bad programming... LEAVE!!!
Fuck him!
He sounds like a piece of shit.
Okay that's pretty bad. He does not respect you and he actively looks at other girls and wants to sleep with them. That is not okay
Dump him
Dumb him seriously. :).