Boyfriend and his degrading “jokes” ?

I love him but he is making me insecure. He always makes sexual jokes about other girls, some of them are really nasty (like he points out a girl and tells how would he f*** that girl). He also makes fun of my body and compares me to the women in porns and tells i would be so sexy if my breast look like them. I told him they are not real then he compared me with his old partners.
He shatters my self esteem and when i talk to him about this he blames me for being “too sensitive” and “not able to take a joke”, “doesn’t have a sense of humour”. He makes fun of things that i can not change. I mean what can i do about it? It doesn’t end here. Im thinking of getting a licence and he told me that i dont have the skills to be a good driver. I got mad and told him he couldnt know that and he keeps insisting that i have to “accept my deficiencies like ” he accepts his own”. It really annoys me how immature and mean he is. He keeps saying stuff like that then he says he was just joking i can't handle a joke, Im the prettiest girl to him and im smart and capable of everything. After hearing all that stuff this means nothing to me. I feel like he’s slurring over after i get mad, and mean what he said.
Im not a shallow person but im way out of his league and it would be great if he appreciated me. I always motivate him and compliment him. I love every inch of him but i get this in return.
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  • How do you respond when he does it? Do you awkward smile or giggle?
    Unless you tell what it does and how it does it, he won't know unless you tell Him.

    If he responds with anything that is condencending point it out,
    BUT!
    Dont get mad, explain and Maybe let a year drop

  • I think he dont deserve u, u need better than this

  • If you really love him.. you should change him first... in his way... like... in his jokes... bcs.. when obstacles comes in our way, we remove them and continue our journey but not end our journey... you should think about him