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Sexual Health Boyfriend likes to use a dildo on himself. Is it normal for straight guys to do that, or is he secretly bi?
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I also caught him putting it in his mouth and sucking on it. After he used it. I asked him about it and I got a contradicting answer. He said he is not attracted to guys, he just likes the dick on them.. and he swears he is straight. I just want to know if this is normal for straight guys to do, or do you thing he is bi?
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18 53So I when I first saw this I was thinking you were overreacting now im thinking he might be bi... also he was putting it in his mouth after using it where? 0_0
His butt... Yeah based on all of the straight guys opinions I'm more leaning to him being interested in both guys and girls. Only saying girls too because if I think about it I've caught him checking out other girls before which now after seeing this makes me feel a lot better because that's what guys who find girls attractive do right? Now I just need to look out for him checking out dudes too.. Eh.
Well if he's with you im sure he's attracted to girl and to the thing about it being in his mouth after his butt ewwwww lol
Maybe he was checking out girls to see what kind of shoes they were wearing.
@AidenBlue hahah nice one
It certainly isn't normal, though technically I wouldn't call it gay either.
Sounds like he would like to be pegged by a girl though.
He's gay, here's why:
1. He likes penis
2. He sucks on it!!!
3. He uses dildo on himself
Just because a guy enjoys prostate stimulation doesn't mean he's gay. Being sexually attracted to men makes a guy gay.
that's the gayest thing I ever heard hahaha
i'm not gay but it's fun to experiment sometimes
It's not normal for straight guys
Lol too much real life hahaha what a f4g
Dude is definitely gay.
lol, leave little so and so :P and find a real man
not necessarily... he probably just likes the feeling of the stimulation...
bi at the least
I think straight. He probably does like dicks, or trans women, but not attracted to men.
Let him get a real man's dick
I think he's not gay. He likes dildos and that's all. I may like cheese, but that doesn't mean I like milk. Discovering him would be amazing.
he is straight
I do this on occasion. I read this and decided to do it again. I think its wonderful but im not gay.
Look as a guy I started about maybe 17 or 18 exploring other sexual practices. I remember using sharpies lol sterilized of course. It felt amazing. It was a different pleasure that I also enjoyed. But I also knew firmly that I had no interest In the same sex. Granted I became more open lol and watch strap on porn more. Just because he can take a dick, doesn't make him gay. He just more open to possibilities and me and go play all the time. She loves using a strap on in her words it made her feel in powered. Don't knock it, till you try it. And this is from a guy with experience with this exact scenario lol +6 years. Hope that helped you :)
From personal experience, I've been with over 140 women. I love women, I love everything about them. I've gotten pretty kinky and I've done a lot of shit. One girl I was with stuck a finger up there while blowing me and it was fucking amazing!! Since then I've experimented with dildos.
If I wanted to be gay, I'd be gay. My brother is gay, I have a ton of gay male friends. I could absolutely transition into being gay very easily.
EXCEPT. I'm not attracted to men. AT ALL. The thought of a hairy man is a huge turn-off.
I cannot bring myself to even entertain the thought of having sex with a guy.
I absolutely love women, I like how their skin feels, how they smell, their ridiculous overwhelming emotions, I love going down on them, I love the taste of pussy, hairy or shaved. I love it all.
So where does that leave me? A straight guy who is comfortable enough with his sexuality that he can admit he likes ass play.
Why do I think I'm interested in it? Probably because it's such a taboo thing. Like having sex in a public place. It's a turn on because it's so not talked about.
To the OP, I think you are sexually repressed personally. Why not get a strap on and see if he's into it? Could be the spark that reignites your relationship.
I believe if a dude likes a dildo enough to put it up his ass and suck it after... He is definitely on the Bi side.. Leaning hard to Gay