It doesn't take much to hurt you and I'd suggest you get it checked out because he could have caused an anal fissure. Any damage in there, even a small one can cause life long problems, or develop into a hemorrhoid.
He most likely caught you with a finger nail when he did it. Also when couples do anything down there, they use lubrication to avoid injury.
If you can't trust your boyfriend when you are asleep, how can you trust him when you are awake?0 0 1 0I've done during sex and later on in bed or sofa while she was asleep. To hurt you must have been dry and he wasn't moist or lube enough. I guess it really does depend on your relationship. My gal would be angrier if I interrupted her reading than sleep. She is open to some ass play in bed. Are you angry because he did it or because what he did hurt?
0 0 1 0I’m not so much angry (I don’t think?) just sad about it. It hurt me and I woke up confused about what happened, if I was awake and wanting to do that then it would’ve been ok. He knows though that I wouldn’t be open to being woken up with him doing something sexual to me, it’s not what I’m into so I guess that’s why I’m sad that he did it?
Don't be sad he wasn't trying to hurt you. But he needs to know it does. Simple talk about doing things while sleeping needs to said straight forward again. Buy the way telling him how much you love making love with him is, but when your awake.
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What a moron. I wouldn't stay with someone who I couldn't trust myself to sleep around.
Doing sexual things with someone who is asleep and can't consent (unless it's been stated previously by that person that it's okay to do it while that person's sleeping), whether it's in a relationship or not, is sexual assault.0 0 0 0First off. I would of mentioned to him
Why did you do it while I was asleep? that is creepy and not right you can not consent, he may like your butt and wanted to try and maybe was to shy to ask you?
Not saying what he did was right because clearly its not, and your not overreacting for sure0 0 0 0
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7 17He needs two weeks on the couch for that.
0 0 0 0No there is nothing to be upset about! You did not overreact, such sexual things are to be done after proper talking and communicating. If you did not like it, confrontation was absolutely CORRECT!
0 0 0 0Be alert.. he's getting you prepared for something bigger 😂
0 0 1 0Uh weird kind of abusive
0 0 0 0Sexual assault. Dump him.
0 0 0 0Tell him to do it when you ask for it.
0 0 0 0I would slap the shit outta him.🤣😂
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Doesn't mean she liked it...
It's pretty weird he did it when you were asleep. But it also depends on how you face it. Do you like it or not? Or let him try when you're awake
0 0 0 0That's pretty creepy
0 0 0 0not over-reacting. if he can hurt you and not be sorry about it, get away and find a guy who cares about you.
0 0 0 0That's a little creepy and messed up.
0 0 0 0He fucked up
0 0 0 0Dump him.
0 0 0 0I've wondered how someones S. O. would feel about waking up to oral, but doing something painful seems seriously wrong, you definitely deserve an apology, at the very least.
0 0 0 0No i think your boyfriend shouldn't do like that
0 0 0 0He’s your boyfriend
0 0 0 0Netx time tell him to eat your vagina you will woke up happy.
0 0 0 0My man :)
0 0 0 0That's actually abuse, it doesn't matter that he is your boyfriend, he did something with wich you didn't concent
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