Boyfriend very rough oral sex?

Hi I'm new to all this but I remembered my friend said she used this site to get advice and it help her so her it go's. I honestly don't like giving my boyfriend oral sex but last week I gave in and told him yes it started out fine but all of a sudden he wraps his arms around my head and shoved it so far down my throat and it was like he was having sex with my throat I was on my knees and he was over me doing that I tried pulling away and hitting his legs but he didn't stop I could barely breathe mu nose was being pushed up against him and his penis was so fat down my throat I was throwing up and he kept going to make matters worse he finished straight down my throat which made me throw up more after he was done, we've been together for about 3 years and I do love him but that was way to much I felt so disgusting afterwards I let him know I was pissed and left haven't talked to him since but he's been calling and texting. what should I do?
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  • if you didn't want it, its called rape. there are a few options you have.. you could leave him, which might suit you.. or you could tell him that oral sex is not happening again.. I've had plenty of blowjobs and never felt the need to skull fuck anyone.. especially someone i cared about.. altho i have been offered to skull fuck someone... but i didn't want to hurt them.

    • Here we go with the liberal sissy boys , it was rape , it was rape , it was rape. Dude cut your hair and nails and throw away that purse.

    • @888theGreat I'm right wing, And I've experienced more violence than you and your father combined. If your a rapist just admit it. your safe.. relax I'm not in the room to bruse your ass. IF a women says stop and the man doesn't stop. That is rape. how do you define rape.. fucking someone against their will. right? So put your dick in your fucking pants. treat a women right or find a motherfucker who is goanna ruin your life and everything you know.

  • please don't rely on this site

    this site is full of bullshit, trust me

  • Either forgive him or don’t. I could see either way. Depends if he’s sorry.

  • Sounds like a mouth full. Maybe you need a guy with a smaller pee shooter.

  • I would tell him what you said. He should understand.

  • That's kinda a stupidity of him. When you are saying stop he needs to stop. He only think about his pleasure but he didn't think about your pain. You could get hurt when you have rough oral sex. Just forgive him for one time if he only will listen to you and go easy on next time oral sex.

  • just be honest

  • U should tell him not to do it again or it’s the end of bjs forever

  • Tell him exactly the truth

  • Stop trolling is what you do.

  • Girl... run. That’s so intense and fucked up.

    • It was really bad I think I'm done with him

    • As you should be that’s so fucked like he is actually dangerous

  • give him some oral sex :)

  • i always say before i start “you can do *almost* anything but if i tap your leg and you don’t let go, i’m gonna use teeth and bite down” they usually communicates quite clear. but for this situation he clearly doesn’t care about your feelings and just wants to get himself off no matter if or what you’re okay with. dump him, he clearly doesn’t understand when you say stop you mean stop and it’ll only get worse.

  • You bite down hard. Teach him a lesson he'll never forget.

  • i dont know

  • Treat that as a red flag. Some people like that, but if he doesn't understand that you don't, he maybe wrong for you. Talk to him and be direct about how not only feel physically uncomfortable but emotionally distressed from it.

  • Probably because you made him wait 3 years for it. He probably did it with other girls a lot.

  • How fat is his penis?

  • Tell him don’t be so rough or no oral sex for him

  • You already asked this question.

    • I just made this account no way