Boyfriend wants group sex?

[Anonymous]

He says watching another guy please me would turn him on. But he says he doesn't know if he wants another guy have sex with me. If a guy hints to you that he wants a threesome/ gang bang, is it a real want of his? He plays it off like its some fantasy of his and tells me not to worry about it too much. But if he's suggesting it, does it mean he wants it? The idea is hot to me as well, i just don't know if I want to have sex with another guy while i am in a relationship. It would feel very wrong to me.

[xHoneyxBeex]

He probably does actually want it but is playing it off as simply a "fantasy" because he doesn't know what your reaction would be if he just straight up asked for a threesome/group sex.

Personally, that is not something I would ever want to do because I feel it would just ruin the relationship, plus I have no desire to sleep with anyone I'm not in a relationship with. That being said, everyone is different so if you think this is something you would be okay with then talk to him about it. See where you both stand and what boundaries you may want to set up for this, if any. It's important that you're both on the same page regarding this.

[EltonBond]

Yeah it does sound like he is desperate for one. I would say maybe not a threesome, but maybe a four some with another couple. That way you can have a three some in a way and it won't destroy your relation ship.
You can't accuse him of having sex with someone else, and neither can he.

I mean I would only do that if you definitely knew what you were getting into. Realise that whatever happens in a 3/4 some stays in the 3/4 some.

Hope this helps.

[MadeInAmerica]

I think he is trying to gauge your interest in it. I would be careful though. I have heard of people doing this and they guy then comparing his sex with the guys and then getting resentful if he thinks the other guy does a better job pleasuring you despite your assurance otherwise.

[anicegirl]

almost surely he's gay. He needs to watch a guy to get off.

[Michael-in-SC]

In my case, it was a real desire. We did it and had a lot of fun.

[Anpu23]

Three ways distroy relationships, that being said this sounds like a fantasy of his and if you tell him your good with it you might have some fun. I've done the group sex thing a few times it can be exciting, just be safe this is a stranger your talking about.