That's actually a very normal curiosity. Men have a lot of sensitivity down there, as well as an internal prostrate gland that's very sensitive to stimulation! (And pegging can be a super fun power trip! A lot of strap ons can be fitted with attachments for clitoral and even internal stimulation! Or try a strapless strapon!)
Since you're hesitant, I'd recommend talking about it. See what about it appeals to him, and see if anything about the power exchange appeals to you! Good communication is the key to great sex!
Thanks I’ll talk to him about it
Good luck! And have fun! Pegging can be a really cool experience!
You need to talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. If you’re not comfortable with it, you should be honest and say so. But be willing to listen too. Let him explain why he wants to try it. If you’re understanding with each other you ought to be able to come to an agreement that you’re both comfortable with.
Yeah that is pretty gay lol
Up to you if you do it
Maybe ask him why of something
And don't do it if u don't want to but try and explain why u don't want to and, if u still wanna be with him, try and make sure he knows that and tell him you hope you can move past it that kinda thing lol
Bit weird but hopefully it'll be no big deal if you don't do it
He’s never tried to force me to do anything I don’t want to do. I just don’t know why he wants to. He won’t even go into certain stores with me for fear of looking “gay” but he wants to be fucked in the ass? I’m confused
Yeah that's weird lol. A lot of gay people don't wanna show it tho because it's still not the norm. But if you have a healthy relationship including normal sex as well, etc, then it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't like you or he doesn't like women, he might just be bisexual or like super weird/gay things no idea why, but it's up to you of course what u do knowing this and do whatever you feel is right lol. If the relationship is otherwise healthy and it's clear he still loves you, in a romantic/sexual way too, then I guess it's just something to keep in mind if you don't mind it Only you can decide lol but yeah it definitely isn't what a normal straight person would ask and he must know it's gay surely Best wishes lol 😁😄🙂🙃x
Thanks for your advice
Getting prostate stimulation can be extremely arousing for a guy, but I would never want a dildo in my butt! Are you up for giving him a prostate massage with your finger and some lube?
Absolutely!
Thanks for the MHG.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm a gay man and everytime I see a question like that from a woman, I cringe. That's because the likelihood of a man who likes penis-shaped things stuffed in his ass to be gay-curious is pretty high. In my experience, I haven't met any single man staying straight after finding out the pleasure of getting fucked in the ass.
There is a lot of talk going on about this by people who have no idea how life works in gay men's world. It is being spun as "If it's done with a woman, then it can't be gay". If it's put that way, yeah, it doesn't sound gay, but it's impossible to separate it from the fact that fucking a hole with a penis is typically done by a man. So, it is hard to swallow for any man the claim of being straight after he is broken even by his girlfriend. The act of anal sex done on a man is gay, period!
So, I think you're right at your apprehension, and if you feel uncomfortable for any reason, don't do it. Chances are your boyfriend has gay tendencies, and he just covers it by asking you to fuck him with a strapon.
It's not gay. Men and women have different parts up there that both if manipulated correctly can give intense feelings of sexual pleasure. For women it's the ends of the two legs of the clitoris. For men it's the P spot. Learn some basic anatomy and remove your blinkers before calling someone gay.
I think you need to have a chat and get some more info. Why does he want it? What aspect of it turns him on?
If its just about the physical sensation of the prostate maybe a massage with your fingers would be better.
Is it like a submissive bdsm thing where he wants to be dominated by you?
So many questions. Its possible he's gay but its also possible its something else.
He likes to be sub I think
Do it if you love him. Its biology. Guys' p-spots are in their butts. That's not their fault and the orgasms they have from it are supposed to be like our g-spot ones. If he's straight then that's why he's asking *you* to do it. Or he would be trolling for dudes. Plus, and I have experience in this, pegging can be hot because of the role reversal aspect. Imagine feeling like a man and fuck the shit out of his ass (no pun intended). It feels /good/ to take over for a change. Trust me. And if you care for him, don't you want to give him awesome orgasms? It's not his fault his p-spot is in his butt. Just remember that. And its healthy to ask for what you know you want sexually. What is unhealthy is judging whatever their kink might be. I always say you never if you like something until you try.
Yes, do it. My husband enjoys it. We first experimented with the strap on in our early 30's. It opened a new door of sexual experiences that we both come to enjoy over the years.
Like they say. Don't knock it, till you try it
Yeah, he's gay.
Not necessarily gay, just means he likes prostate stimulation.
I think it’s worth giving it a shot. If you use a strapless strap on or at least a vibe on yourself so you can enjoy it too you might have more fun. Use more lube than you think you need, then double it.
If you aren't comfortable doing this, then tell him that. This interest doesn't mean he is attracted to men.
I think he would love you doing it because he trust you. He also would like to experience losing his virginity (rear) to you. I’d so love to do this with my partner. Anal play doesn’t make a guy gay, they just want to experience a really good thrill. Use plugs to practice then go for it. What a Lucky guy.
I am not averse to some anal play but that setup suggests mental issues you do not want to marry.
If your not comfortable with it, dont do it
I dont see much of a problem with it. You basically just fulfill one of his fantasies whilst not needing to do much yourself. Try it atleast? No harm in it for you,
Ofcourse if you dont feel comfortable doing it then you should tell him so.
Read up on the power of the prostate, the "male G-spot".
Also, relinquishing control and giving it to you, some men find very appealing. Obviously only do what you are comfortable with, but he is really opening up to you, (pun intended) and giving of himself.
His guy period. No real man would ever want that.
It's not gay, it's a lot more common than you'd think these days.
You'll probably get a lot of gays saying it's gay get rid of him. But the male g spot is actually stimulated by anal sex, there are a few strap ons out there that can pleasure you at the same time.
If you feel uncomfortable doing it tell him about your reservations, but I'd recommend at least trying it at least once. You might enjoy it too, if you don't at least you'll know and can tell him it's not something you're comfortable doing.
He'll just have to accept that
Pretty weird huh? Yes, it's way gay. LOL
If you're not comfortable with it let him know.
And do NOT do it.
If you’re not comfortable then don’t do it
Full on gay anyone else who says otherwise is probably gay that's an exit only if it were meant to be an entrance they wouldn't prolapse
@weldaboi Gay sexual relations is between two guys, lesbian sexual relations is between two women and straight sexual relations is between a woman and a guy regardless the sexual acts. With that said how is it gay?
He wants a dick shaped object shoved into his butthole that's what is gay
@weldaboi Still not gay if it is with a woman.
I do not take anyone seriously if they think pegging is gay
How the heck it is gay when it is a woman fucking him not another man
You failed Sex 101 lol
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