Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health My boyfriend wants to have a threesome with another guy, he’s not into guys but basically he wants to see me being pleasured by another guy, he gets off on that he said. I’ve never done anything like that before, and the thought of it doesn’t really turn me on. I love my boyfriend a lot and he’s the only one I want but I don’t want to disappoint him and not do this for him.
We’ve been talking about it for months but I think he really does want to do it and my worry is if I don’t he will eventually get bored or find someone else kinkier. he said a few of his friends do it and other couples, he said we’re running out of kinky things to do. I’m worried I’m not kinky enough for him. What do I do?
Boyfriend wants to have a threesome, what do I do?
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19 46you should try it
it is fun
Don't do it! it would be less bad with another girl but another guy puts all the pressure on you. Will you be able to handle being penetrated by two different guys? If you're feeling the pressure now you'll be shitting yourself in the moment sorry.
Do it. Get that dick
You got yourself a cuckold, if you won't be comfortable doing this in your relationship, you maybe should think about ending it.
After that he will want a threesome with another woman. He is just letting g you go first so you won't say no to him after.
If you don't want to, say :"no". Just respect yourself.
I wouldn’t be with anyone that wanted a threesome. That’s a deal breaker for me
your boyfriend doesn't like you. you have just become his sexual toy. Self-respecting people don't want that.
He is bi then
when your ready give it a try
do it, threesome is best of done in right way.
dump him.
are you done yet
It seems to me that doing something like that when you dont want to can only end up being a total fucking train wreck.
If he isn't the guy for you then find out sooner rather than later.
Oh, and stop thinking in terms of not being enough for him, that isn't at all healthy, you're great just as you are, another woman who was into that isn't better than you.
Get a new boyfriend.
Exactly
Be honest with him and tell him you're not interested in a threesome. If you doing kinky things is a deal breaker for him, he may have to find a new girlfriend. It's better to deal with it now than after many years.
Are there other varieties of kinky that you would be more willing to try?
Tell him to go f himself.
Your boy friend wants you to become more dominant. You will be the center of attraction, two men serving you. Eventually one man will become more dominant, then they will be doing each other with you directing.
Respect yourself and your boundaries, I cannot stress that enough to my friends. You can be pornstar kinky but honey if that man wants to leave at some point then you cannot stop him. So do what genuinely feels right and comfortable for you because at the end of the day it is you who has to live with it. Don’t get me wrong, nothing is wrong with stepping outside of your comfort zone and trying new things. But if you’re having this much inner conflict, and being honest with yourself you know that a 3some is not for you then make peace with that and tell him. If he keeps pushing the topic then HE is the problem, not you. He should respect your “no” rather than be turned off and wanting to discard you. You don’t want a person like that anyway, if he turned out to have that negative response because it is selfish and inconsiderate of you. Keeping a man is not worth your peace of mind.