Boyfriend won’t use lube?

We haven’t had intercourse yet but we want to. I have bought up using lube but he said no, we don’t have to, the condom is lubricated. I get wet down there, but I think using lube would also help to get him in. How can I get him to use it?

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Superb Opinion

  • Get it just in case but if y'all don't physically need it then why use it? It should depend, if y'all can keep the lubricant as your natural lubricant then I don't see why more lube is necessary but I'm sure if you get it and have it at hand at the moment, it increases your chances of using it

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you get wet enough there shouldn't be any need for extrra lube but if that's whst you want he dhoulf be considerate enough to comply if he truly cares for you. It sounds to me like he may be a bit selfish and doesn't want to depend any time pleasing you but rather judtcwsnts to get his rocksboff at your expense.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Either he agrees on having it on stand by - in case YOU feel it is required or sex won't happen.

    Both parties should be comfortable, this is an easy task - to make you comfortable that shouldn't cause him any discomfort, if he does then he shouldn't be having sex at all yet.

  • I definitely agree with you... lube the first few times makes it a whole lot more comfortable to you.

    Once you get past the first few times, your normal wetness should suffice.

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  • Boobslayer doesn't use lube because he prefers the natural slippery sensation of titties, ta-tas, fiery biscuits, melons, coconuts, and cream pies!

  • Everybody's right about have it because it can make it easier, better, etc.

    BUT

    Here's the real point that you shouldn't overlook: sex is about both partners being comfortable. Your boyfriend isn't doing that. That's a huge red flag accompanied by a flashing red light and a blaring siren. If he's not being solicitous about this most intimate and personal of things, why expect it elsewhere in your relationship?

  • If you are fore playing before sex, get up because you want to pee before PIV and butter up with an unscented aloe vera body lotion. He'll' just think you are wet and ready.

  • lol wtf why he doent want to use lube it olny makes things better, just say no and you only will do it with lube.

  • Have it available in case it is necessary.

  • Tell him you're using it and don't give him a choice. It's your body.

  • I have only had sex with 2 girls and we did not use lube (used condoms every time) but I would think it would make it even more pleasurable for both the guy and the girl. Maybe put some in without telling him and see how it feels? I don't think a girl can ever be too wet.

  • You should be fine without lube. You shouldn’t need it unless you already have problems down there already.

  • some time u need one