Can a girl in her 20's learn how to have sex or is too late?

I'm sure I can't. If I lost my virginity when I was a teen then I could learn but not that I'm about 22 I don't think I can.. I believe everything should be learned at a young age. When I watch porn I get shocked how women do those moves.
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  • You're never too old to learn. And that goes for pretty much everything in life including sex. Every new sexual relationship is a bit of a learning process actually. Everyone is different. For example: some prefer you doing A, some prefer B, some prefer A but done in a certain way, while some one else might love A as well, but prefers it done another way,...
    The key to being good in bed is paying attention. Listen to what (s) he says when you're talking about sex. Read your partner's reaction when you do certain things, check what (s) he does when you do that thing you get most response from, a bit differently. Does the reaction intensify or become less,...

  • For reals? Of course you can. Good sex takes practice and whether you practice with just one guy or multiple it doesn't really matter, however different partners will teach you different techniques, so there is something to be said about that.

    • Are guys who are into casual sex willing to teach girls how to have sex properly?

    • Of course, guys like having sex and worst case scenario (which I doubt) would be that a guy would only have sex with you once but you still got to learn/practice, but again I doubt that. However that all said, as a virgin, and it's totally up to you but u don't know if jumping into casual sex is the best move for you. The first time really should be with your significant other but it really comes down to you.

    • what about the second time? SHould I break up?

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Eh. No. You don't 'learn' sex. You learn the theory, the theory could make you better at it even when your first time is in your early 40. Sex is biological and your body reacts to it on its own. There isn't such a thing as learning by experimenting with sex.
    There are many sluts who have no idea what they're doing and who suck at it.
    Porn is all staged and fake even the orgasms lmao. I can't believe you're using that as an example.

  • I am learning again... trust me who ever the guy is you are with... he will train you!! No worries in not knowing what to do... 😉 Enjoy learning again...

    • I'm a virgin.

    • It's all good... they'll train you... u may feel awkward at first but then you'll feel very confident bc whatever felt good or not you're going to see your partner wanting to make it awesome for you... and you'll be able to tell him! What those good you want more off or less off. Things do work out fine at the end. Just dont rush it, and do have sex when you are ready.. not when a guy thinks you should do it now when you are not. Ok. Enjoy.

  • It's never too late dear..
    I'm 18 and still I didn't have sex
    Don't worry it will happen eventually when you want it to

  • It isn't fucking rocket science. I figured it out at that age lol.

    • Lol some promiscuous women told me that I will be terrible at sex because im a virgin

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  • Of course you can learn. But I'm not sure porn should be how to learn. When the right guy or girl comes along it will just happen naturally.

    • Most experienced women said inexperienced women don't know what they are doing.

    • But learning is quick and easy. And enjoyable.

    • maybe if I was younger

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  • You'd be surprised by what you can learn at your age, I'm 22 and I'm learning every day, I've still never had sex and in no rush, but I think I'll be just fine learning it, if anything I'll probably be better at learning it now since my mind isn't fucked up with hormones.

  • Yes you can, you are never too old to learn anything so always believe in yourself and you will succeed

  • Women really don't need to learn much, a lot harder for men to learn to be "good" at sex, especially the older they get.

  • Commercial porn is not the way sex is at home. Of course you can learn it. Much of it comes naturally. Let the right guy bring you through it.

  • You can learn at any age once you're of legal age

  • To my experience it is something you have or dont have naturally. I knew a girl who did it much more "right" at her first month of sex, then the girl who had 25 partners before and started her sexual life 2 years earlier then the first girl.
    However, some skills can be obtained quite much in any point of life.

  • You can learn. You can learn anything at any age. Yes, it can be learned.

  • Actually you got it right, society is whats wrong, you are doing right missy 😂

  • Sex is a surprisingly intuitive thing. You go with what you feel, and as long as you pay attention to your partner's body language, your bodies will work to achieve orgasm together

  • psh never to late,,,, Id love to teach you, I love doing that, been a long time since I had someone wanting to learn.

  • Everything can be learned through certain pace and time there is no pressure and be side it is not too late

    • it may take years

    • No its not.

  • Lol regretting waiting till marriage now? xD
    Don't worry. You can learn it why time.

    • Lol no. I better suck in bed than have sex before marriage.

    • xD you're still worried. Interesting.

    • Not to the point of wanting to be a slut

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  • Porn is not like real sex lol. Girls dont have instant orgasms and guys dont have 12 inch dicks with abs of steal.

  • You can learn hun, it's not that hard, just don't over think it. Also practice makes perfect 👍

    • at this age?

    • Hun you're young, you act like 20 is the new 40. You'll be fine 👌.

    • but wouldn't it be better if I lost my virginity at 15? I think a 15 year old girl learns better than 22 year old girl

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  • It's a skill you have to start from knowing your body, and virtual sex can give you a good insight on that. If you restrain yourself in knowing how your body sexually respond, you will more likely think your partner has to be responsible for your sexual pleasure and therefore your sex life is not gonna be that pleasing.

  • You can do it.

  • Darling, I'm 55 and I'm still learning.. It's never to late and I will bet there are no shortages of "teachers" if that is your picture, i'd volunteer to be your teacher!

    • what could you not learn? I can't imagine anything. PM if you dont want to discuss this openly in the forum

  • You will be fine when it's with someone you love it should come natural.

  • You don't need to do thoss porn moves lol just learn how to give head right and learn about forplay and tje things you can do while he's fucking you to turn him on

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