Can guys feel when they are about to "cum"?

we was having unprotected sex and not even 5 minutes into having sex, he pulled out. There was cum everywhere. He said he never cummed that fast before and he didn't nut in me. He said he almost came in me. There was so much cum, the scene looked like it was splattered and squirted. After he pulled out we stopped.
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  • Hey honey x
    Sounds like you're going through a rough time. Guys do. know when they're about to cum, my boyfriend tells me just when he's about to all the time. But even then, sometimes they don't have enough time. If they're super aroused, they just explode. Sounds like that's what happened to him. A few times my boyfriend didn't want to cum cause he would need to go. work straight from meeting me.
    But I would push him to his limits and he'd explode.
    I don't think your boyfriend did it by purpose. It sounds like he tried to pull out and just never made it. That's why some people don't always use the pull out method.
    Also precum may have got you pregnant. Low sperm count but it can happen.
    Best thing is to talk to him about it.

  • Oh definitely !! Lol they be like starting to moan a lot (some of them moan a lot anyway) & their penis starts throbbing & they be like "ohhhh I'm about to cum" or if ur riding them, they'll tell u to get up lol! Trust me THEY KNOW!!! I had this one boyfriend that I was so mad at bc he KNEW I didn't wanna get pregnant & we were not using a condom & he came in me a little bit before he pulled out & I was SO scared until my period came! So don't believe them if they say they can't feel it & NEVER have unprotected sex :( there is birth control, condoms, spermicide, & also plan B! PLEASE be more careful honey

  • Yes, they feel it coming.. and, often, you can tell too because of the small physiological changes...

    He loses some of his rhythm, his breathing changes, his balls will tighten.

    Sadly, most guys, when they feel the PonR (point of no return) they play chicken with it.. trying to get a few extra strokes in..

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  • well the first sex ed class teaches you that all guys have some amount of cum leaking out during the entire sex act and if he pulled out cumming then 99% he left some inside you, you seem to be ignorant of the consequenses of sex. maybe stop fucking til you learn birth control

  • Most guys can tell about 5 to 10 second before they cum. Some think they can delay it once the body commits and that's BS. Once the body commits that it , play time is over

    • I never seen that happened before. when I raised up there was cum on the bed and coming out of his penis... He said he didn't nut on me but he cum'd everywhere. After that we stopped. Now weeks later I'm pregnant.. next week I was suppose to go to basic training so I'm upset.

    • Damn that's messed up. And the mess maker is no where to be found

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  • It's exactly like a sneeze: you can feel it coming on, sometimes you can hold it back if the urge isn't too strong, but once it's coming, it's coming.

  • Wow... Nice story... Yes guys can tell... Probly around 10 seconds before... U should feel it pulsing

    • I wondered what happened because when he pulled out it was cum everywhere as if I just entered "cum" planet.. he said he didn't nut in me but this pregnancy test said he did. After he pulled out, sex was over.

    • Cum planet... Lmao... Its possible to get pregnant from pre cum... A little bit comes out when we r Horny for a while... can't hormones mess those things up? And there is supposed to be a cycle where a girl won't get pregnant based on when her monthly deal... I think its two weeks a month..

    • Don't depend on a female cycle to prevent a baby lol

  • Yes we get that good feeling when were about to bust.

    • :( my ship off date for the army was next week... what a lost!

    • So you didn't go?

    • you can't go when you are pregnant. do you not know the stipulations?

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  • Troll much?

  • usually our cocks tend to tighten up and we feel that it's about to happen, but it's hard to gauge when it's going to start erupting from the tip, sometimes my cock convulses for a few seconds before the show starts and sometimes it's immediate

  • Yes, I think it is the same with women... feeling it build to a climax. We can feel the muscle tense just before. FYI, pre-ejaculation (man's lube) which is usually clear, can have semen in it that can still get you pregnant.

  • Usually yes, but sometimes it just hits you.

  • you can still get pregnant even if the guy pulls out because of 'pre-ejaculate' or 'pre-cum'

    'Pre-ejaculate is the clear, colorless, viscous fluid that is emitted from the urethra of the penis during sexual arousal. It is similar in composition to semen but has some significant chemical differences. The presence of sperm in the fluid is variable.'

    That's why it's still better to use protection or birth control if not protection.

    • and yea, you can normally tell beforehand but men don't always have perfect control. for example he might have been holding off on cumming for a little while if he was giving you a chance to cum also. so don't assume he did it deliberately or something.

  • Yes they can and the guys duck gets bigger and harder right before they cum

  • even if he doesn't cum in you. you can still get pregnant from precum. so either way be careful

  • Here's an idea, if you don't want to get pregnant don't have unprotected sex. You should have gotten plan b just in case. Condoms are dirt cheap and plan b is only like 50 or 60 dollars. A baby takes in about a quarter of a million of your hard earned dollars and shits out your former hopes and dreams.

    To answer your question, yes a guy gets at least 5 seconds of warning. You're both idiots.

  • DAMN 5 MINUTES HOLY SHIT... i only last 10 secs... fuck...

  • Yes

    ,,,

  • No, it just sprays out of me.

  • Yeah, you can feel it building up

  • Yeah, but it can happen pretty fast so there's no guarantee he can always pull out in time.

    Haven't you heard the saying:
    Him: "Don't worry I'll pull out"
    Her: "Famous last words"

  • Yes, we can feel we are about too lol
    It seemed like your boy/guy friend can given he pulled out prior

    • Given?

    • given, referring tot he fact he must have knew he was about to cum

    • ooo knew it but didn't care

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  • Oh yeah. You know when it is coming well in advance.

  • We can feel it, but when sex is intense, it feels like that all the time, so it is hard to set the right moment to pull out.

  • yes really

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