Can he love you and still not give you any money?

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

He gives me useful advice.
The sex is great.
We have good conversations.
I help him, he helps me.
We relate to each other in strange ways.

BUT HE doesn't EVEN HELP ME WITH GAS?

okay, so i do drive to him- whether he invites me or not, but like I said about 8 lines UP, the segs is g r e a t.

That brings me to another question.. are
Men good in bed ON PURPOSE? like, do you guys really use Great Sex to keep a women around.. and to like.. marry her? (Is this cheating, can I ask a question IN a question? 😈 )
anywaYs.

right before he left me today he tells me he loves me (looks at me and then drives off). I wuuz walking away, but I must admit, this little pink lipped mouth was open craving for just 10 more minutes with Daddy. 🙊🎶🎺🎸🎷❤️

I thought a man’s role was to provide, so

what’s going onn?

ohandthankyouinadvance

[MrOracle]

"I thought a man’s role was to provide"

You were mistaken.

It's a traditional man's role, in a traditional relationship with a traditional woman, to be the provider.

Most women today are not traditional women, and have no desire to be traditional women - they're MODERN women, and they want feminism and equality and girl power. And this is what that looks like: you pay your own way and he pays his.

Privileges and authority come with responsibilities and liabilities. If you want to be a modern woman, and be his equal, then you need to take equal responsibility too. If you want to follow HIM, and put HIS career and HIS program first, and support him, and take care of his home and his children, then he absolutely should be providing for you, but if you aren't doing that - if you're expecting to be an equal, then that's exactly what you're getting: treatment of an equal.

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

I totally agree! It’s a traditional way of doing things and I love it. Trust, I can handle it. When he and I have spoken about our past relationships, he tends to mention masculine qualities about these women even though they are drop dead gorgeous.. masculine qualities like extreme independence and disrespectful behavior towards him to belittle him. It was disgusting. I had to remind him what respect from a woman looked like - I never will forget the relieved look on his face. I’m extremely feminine and was raised by an old Puertorican grandmother who would put on and take off her husband’s shoes everyday for work until he passed. And that’s just one of the many little things she’d do for him. They had 6 children and raised them in a farmhouse in the county of PR. My grandfather sold life insurance. It wasn’t easy, but my grandmother made his life 1000% better. You could see his gratitude in all their pictures together. How rewarding? Traditional is the only way I see myself happy, but I’m afraid he’s been brainwashed by his ex’s.

[Phoenix98]

A mans role is to provide to his wife and his family and or when with a traditional woman who takes a traditional role since all those things often intersect. A man is in no way obligated to provide for a woman who isn't his wife unless they are living together ( because it's kind of the same thing )

Also how far are you driving? To another town? Or is just like a 10 minute drive or within your city/town?

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

You’re right. A man has no obligation unless it’s his wife, and I’m not his wife. Well, not yet 😇 haha I don’t really know what the future holds, but he fu*ks me like we wants me to be his wife. He fu*ks me like he wants me to keep coming back and well, doesn’t that mean something?

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

Oh, it’s a 15 minute drive 4-6 days a week. I’m not complaining, I just noticed and wasn’t sure if he was taking advantage. Sometimes it feels like that..

[Phoenix98]

Lol well good luck to you on that front. I would focus on more on how he acts aside from fucking you, you know does he like you, like talking to you, being around you, do y'all get along well, etc, stuff like that. As for the fucking part I mean most guys probably want most women they fuck to come back so they can have more sex, we're kinda horny creatures. I mean that's that not bad, I would say if your going to his place that many times a week he probably could chip in a little from time to time because gas is kind of pricey atm. But no I wouldn't say he's taking advantage of you when it comes to you driving over there. As for the rest of the relationship I can't speak on that.

[DonkeyDan]

Nice to see equality is alive and kicking!

[prettyfacegoodtaste]

Lol ☺️

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

If he doesn't offer to give you gas money to come to see him that's not a good sign
I believe all guys should offer money for gas, for you to drive to him

[joeldalton]

If he dicks you down, he doesn't have to give you money.

[jasco]

My first thought was A but i choose C because it is likely that he may have some issues. Some guys are good on purpose some depends on the girl

[Twalli]

Why do we need to give you money? Do you want to have the freedom to buy what you want? The man as provider was only true when the woman did not work and had nothing to her name. She was literally the property of her father and then her husband.

[msc545]

If you are getting all that good sex, stop worrying about GAS for fucks sake.

[EaterPeter]

Nope

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[EaterPeter]

Circumstantial though

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

So, you're expecting him to, basically?

Yikes

[krin_m]

If you really need it, he should help out.

[Anonymous]

If his role in your relationship is to provide, what is your role?