Can sex turn into a way to apologize to someone?

Let’s suppose you and this person are Separated for some reason after a serious fight and you guys haven't seen each other in months. You 2 meet and decide to have sex and the other person thinks that its a way to say sorry and wants to start over. is it acceptable?🤔
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  • For me, sex is an important part of a relationship. Just having sex is not a way to apologize, you have to say the words, mean them, and show me that you mean them. There is such a thing as "make up sex", but you should maintain the sexual part of a relationship to where it is not used for an apology.

    • Good answer

  • You need to say sorry with your words. You can't see it with your words, that means you feel an incongruity between your external reality and your internal reality. And that's a red flag

  • If u can make it worth while. But don't stress it I'm sure it'll be fine.

  • Depends on the crime lol😏, but also that is only when the person is in love with you or your just up for aggressive sex

    • by the way how you got your account back you had left right?

    • Yeah i did

    • But how did you get back the same account I am confused

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  • I think that an actual apology needs to be thrown in there somewhere.

  • Its for choice to have sex. No matter what his intentions were by having sex with you, its your voice if you want to further the relationship

    • Not me

  • It can be but id strongly warn against it

  • It really really depends on the whole background story. It's impossible to assume without knowing why you know.

  • I guess so but don't overuse it

  • thought that was called makeup sex?

    • Depends on what you think about it and how you see it

    • yea true , i can agree w that

  • I think you should communicate verbally before you start the sex. But yeah, I think that's a perfectly fine and acceptable way of making up. I certainly would accept that apology.

  • Isn't that called make up sex?

    • Depends on how you see it. This question is a free question not related to someone specific, so put yourself in this issue and answer based on your self

  • Sexual intercourse is just that... intercourse. Intercourse means talking and listening. If she's willing to Listen to me, I'll accept he way of Talking to me and telling me she's sorry. But of course, the most important thing is Showing you're sorry by doing things differently ever afterwards.

  • 1st apologize then have awesome makeup sex

  • Oh yes quite Brady , making up skidding saying sorry it can quickly turn into sex...

  • That depends on you if you want to give them that chance but you are not obligated to give it to them.

  • Makeup sex is fine

  • It's acceptable if they are fuckbuddies.

  • It would not work with me. To me, sex is about celebrating love, amplifying it through sensuality. Apologies are a way to heal damaged love. If love is damaged, sex will be too. I prefer the apology first, to sort out the situation, to leave each other some time for forgiveness and then we'll see if we have sex.

    To me, I would feel disrespected if you think that just having sex with me could erase all the wrongdoings, everything that happened and excuse your behavior. You don't just buy me with sex like that, I still have some self-respect and honor.

  • No you should communicate with each other to fix the disagreement

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