Can someone please shed some light, why is my partner watching PORN all the time, he's in his late 40's, and gets sex from me daily?
We have sex daily; at least morning and night (sometimes more)
He's in his late 40s and likes 18 year category.
He watches porn every day, hides it or denies.
I am so over it, hey yeah watch occassionally at times... he has it all and seems to still want this virtual reality.
We have sex every day, I've started to feel like shit knowing he is doing this daily and its now starting to 4 years later affect me dramatically.
I feel overwelmed by his regular use, and the lies.
My man, he is in his late 40's, we been together doe 4 years and I have always provided him with high levels of sex (never once turned him down)
I'm started to feel like there is something wrong with me.
He lies all the time, i know he's doing it, he makes me feel crap when confronted, like its in my head and makes me feel like I'm crazy like serious mind head fuck games.
This is shit, hey yeah guys watch porn and so do some girls, but I feel usually when they have good reason and something is missing, or its occasional viewing, this is over the top especially based on the circumstances.
I'm annoyed, why should I give him so much of me sexually when he's not reciprocating.
I feel like telling him to get off on his daily porn viewing shit, if he can't then he can stop fucking me, bacause i'm exhausted and now feeling like shit feeling like I'm begin to disassociate physically, I dont want to feel this way, it's all from this level of porn viewing. The porn is fucking up a good relationship 😔.
What do you do, am I like fighting a losing battle... can anyone explain to me;
Why he is doing this?
Is it worth staying in there?
Am I not good enough, is this why he watches it?
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