Can someone please tell me why some men think this is acceptable behavior and other men justify it by saying it's men's nature?

Is this really a. Acceptable because youre a man?
Is this really a. Acceptable because you're a man?
I'm not men bashing. I'm no feminazi or that bs crap. But I am a woman sick of being objectified by men.
My neighbor's "husband" has hit on me in the past. Bad enough. But this morning when went over there because she was taking me to doctor, she had ran a quick errand. So, because she wasn't home he got even worse, at one point coming out of his chair and almost pinning me to the wall... I have never done anything to warrant this behavior. His excuse, he's a man and horny. I have a sexy body. So that excuses forcing your attentions or hands on someone else regardless of how they feel?
Its my right as a man
It's my right as a man
Noone woman or man should have to put up with fearing for their safety at the hands of another. I know there is a lot of men who don't feel that way, don't do that, and won't justify. But that there's any even if it was just one, is one too much.
This from fellow gag user a week ago in regard to dick pics question
This from fellow gag user a week ago in regard to dick pics question
Being a man, having urge, does not justify forcing yourself on a woman.
And anyone that excuses rapes or justifies it is just as guilty as the rapist cuz you victimizing the victim all over again by doing that.
Sorry if this comes off more as a rant than a question. Just want to spread awareness. You don't just harm someone physically. My blood pressure was high at the doctor's office probably as a result of this.
And I've been emotionally upset all day. Ironic this happened 20 min. after posting a mytake about true love/ real relationships.
As he's a married man, 40 years married, guess jokes on me for still believing🤷‍♀️
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  • Well if your neighbour is an asshole just either tell his wife, threaten him with police ir actuakl call the police. This is sexual harrassment. And don5 come bashing all men judging on one individuals behaviour.

    • I did not come at all men sir nor would. I said some, because he is not the only man tti do this. Please do not put words in my mouth I did not say, or excuse me of sound I didn't do. Maybe you should reread and tell me where / how I said all or blamed or bashed men. The are a lot of great men I speak to/ consider friends, some right here on GaG. But thank you for responding

  • Have you told her how he behaving

    • She knows

    • Wow I wouldn't go over there anymore

  • Some men are idiots who have low self-esteem and desperately try to belittle women in a feeble effort to make themselves feel empowered.

    Some just hate women because they are no longer subservient sex toys for them like they were in the past (MAGA idiots)

    All of these men come from the same ole pond of fish.

  • its not

  • It’s about control for them.

  • I am so sorry that has happened to you. No one has the right to do that!!! To anyone!!! I had a girl try and force her self on me. She grabbed my crotch and everything. And when I pushed her off. She told people I, hit her. But, my female witnesses. Came forward and helped me out.

    Again, I am so sorry that happened to you!!

    • Thank you. And sorry you did as well.

  • Just because you have a dick doesn't mean you have to be a dick, but unfortunately it's a common problem.

  • I'm sorry to say but some guys just can't help being assholes

    • Forcing yourself or your unwanted attention is more than being an asshole

    • Yes I know but I couldn't say anything stronger without risking causing offence

    • Yeah, hear that

  • Totally unacceptable behavior, tell his wife what he did to you.
    Also tell him if he lays a hand on you ever again you will call the police and have him charged, It would be best to avoid contact with him.

  • Totally unacceptable. A woman is a thinking, feeling person and deserves respect

    • Thank you sir

  • Well i can be very sweet

  • No idea

  • That very sad , what happened to you. As a guy I don’t support it and I have never behaved such and never will. But actually many men are confused too. A lot of girls do like and encourage this type of dominating behaviour of men. I have seen it many times. Dating bad boys is on mainstream. So it’s very hard to avoid this kind of behaviour in our society which is pathetic.

    • This was not dating. This is a "married" man. So put your hands on your wife keep em off me. Whatever I like or don't like sexually has nothing to do with someone keep coming at you. Anyways. But I don't fuck around with married men, period !

    • And no confusion. He knows I'm not down with that shit. But don't care, cuz is what he wants. If you know what you're doing is making someone uncomfortable you don't do it.

    • Tell everything to his wife and police

  • That dude is not normal. Don’t you think she should know?

    • I pretty sure she knows he tries hitting on me.

    • That just sounds like a whole load of messed up that I would not want to be involved in tbh.

    • Yeah I'm just done with those people.

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  • Some people are like that (Male and female)
    They feel that they have the right to force themselves onto others or take advantage of others.
    Some with minors.
    It's more that individual's messed up personality.
    Of course it's not all people.
    It may be in the nature for the fucking assholes who do it, but not all people.
    The only ones who would attempt to justify it are ones with similar inclinations.