Can someone really “steal” a kiss from you (see paragraph below)?

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I mean aside from like if you’re sleeping and have no clue someone is standing over you about to lay a kiss on ya... like i was Watching a show and the girl claimed “I didn't cheat. He kissed me. He just stole a kiss from me.” And this of course resulted in them making out. But anyways, if your current/future partner claimed someone STOLE a kiss from them, would you believe it? Or would you think they gave in and allowed it to happen? Like nahh dude i need to know the details of how they just so suddenly froze your head to where you couldnt pull away lmao.
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Phoenix98 · Accepted Answer

I would call bullshit personally.

stealing a kiss happens one of two ways.

1# they’re going in for a cheek kiss and you turn your head so that they kiss your lips. In which case your guilty.

2# they straight up grab your head and hold it still and kiss you while your resisting. In which case it’s not their fault.

but ideally don’t put yourself in that situation to begin with.

Ripper_E · Accepted Answer

You cannot steal a kiss. Even if they kiss you and you freeze, that's not kissing them back. Even if your immediate reflex is to kiss back, how long do you need to figure out that you are being kissed? Someone cannot steal a kiss from me. It will register immediately and I shove the person back.

MAC1983 · Answer

You know, you are missing an option: no-one or someone stole a kiss from me and if was inappropriate and/or led to verbal and/or physical violence... Go kiss a fish, you stalker!

Lliam · Answer

I'm a kiss thief. I steal them from unsuspecting women and hoard them in a box in my closet. I have lots of them, all kinds. Bwahahahaha

Actually, it's kinda like that prank you play on children where you swipe at their nose and then hold your fist up with the tip of your thumb poking out and say, "I've got your nose." Women freak out when you do that to their kisses. "He stole my kiss! He stole my kiss! Make him give it back!!!"

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If you don't want to kiss, you resist as soon as you realize what's happening.

spartan55 · Answer

Stealing kisses... tf is that? Bunch of bulljive.

VanityFair748 · Answer

Actually, this happenned to me. I was talking to a friend and nothing seemed that was going this way, it was just regular convo and he suddenly grabbed me and kissed me and hugged me so hard that I could barely move. It didn't result us to make out, though. I don't really understand how you can start making out by force. It was an awful experience. Never talked to him again after that

Gooblegobble · Answer

Yeah, you would have some level of physical repulsion if you didn't want it, I think.

Jjpayne · Answer

It's in the moment. The moment is a thing. Some are good and they sit up and say I'm sorry I can't do this. But some get caught in the moment and quickly leave later saying this was a mistake.

But that moment can be confusing and entrancing

Can someone really “steal” a kiss from you (see paragraph below)?

Sometimes the moment just happens...

What matters however, is what comes after...

Does he or she stop? A kiss can happen but it can also be stopped or stopped quickly during or after

Hans222 · Answer

I guess A. From you I can take it hahaha 😉

Finchie40 · Answer

They can but it comes
Down to how you react to it , if you are already in a relationship with someone and another person tries to steal a kiss from you it mainly comes down to how you react to it , if you instantly pull away then I wouldn’t consider that cheating. But if you don’t instantly pull away then there is no excuse , Bottom line if it ever happens to you you are probably best not to mention it to your partner cuz your partner is going to analyze the shit out of it and make it more intense then it actually was , this type of shit usually happens when alcohol is involved at a party or a bar or club , concerts as well, when people are having fun and boozing it up and they come across someone that they are attracted to the alcohol usually gives them that confidence to pretty much go for it , I encountered this through the years going to concerts and bars and clubs where a girl would just walk up to me and say Hi and then go in for a kiss , if I was in a relationship with someone at those times it occurred I would instantly pull away but if I was single and I thought the girl was attractive then I say fuck it and kiss her back lol So bottom line is your reaction is what matters , it shouldn’t take you more than a second to push someone off anything over that you are talking out of your ass

JDavid25 · Answer

I think that's sexual assault if somebody "steals" a kiss from you.. Cause it means you didn'twant it and they kissed you.. 😂😂😂.. But I doubt that's what happened to her.. She just makin excuses..

MecheD · Answer

in all reality I feel it could happen , way too many drinks and someone who likes you takes a shot without you thinking. If you aren't someone well alert or easily a drifter it is possible. But at the end of the day if you nip it in the bud asap is the real determining factor.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah it can definitely happen

DJB72 · Answer

It always comes into one of two categories: assault or complicit. You can't "accidentally" kiss someone or be kissed by someone. It's a deliberate act by at least one person.

AlexanderAnttila · Answer

What in the world is going on in the first gif xD

Anpu23 · Answer

First stealing a kiss is still sexual assault. Unwanted sexual contact it just that. I've had a surprise kiss, looking a different way and boom! But it was from someone I like kissing. But yes it can be done.

FakeName123 · Answer

It's a cheap excuse. People gotta take more responsibility for their stupid actions.

ColHathi · Answer

I could see it happening, sure. If they're caught by surprise and/or don't know how to react. If they start making out though, I'm out, lol.

KingDio · Answer

As someone who was in a relationship with someone who "had a kiss stolen " with another guy I call bullshit on it when could do Some thing to stop or voice disapproval on the action by kneeing then in the nuts or something

AdithyaR · Answer

I guess it depends on how it's reciprocated.
It would be stealing a kiss if you immediately reject them and pull away or push them off. If you can push them before lips make contact then even better.
If you kiss them back, it's not stealing, it's making out.

RHK36 · Answer

I mean I guess that can happen all of a sudden when drinking. You could easily let your guard down and someone dives in to plant a kiss. If your reaction isn't to slap the shit out of that person then it's an issue. For the most part it's very hard for someone to steal a kiss.

Can someone really “steal” a kiss from you (see paragraph below)?

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