Can you be attracted towards a dark skinned person?

[insteadfew]

Can you be sexually and romantically attracted to a person with quite dark skin , as shown in picture

[Anonymous]

This seems like a question that's going to lead to some racist replies 🤔
As a dark skinned woman (not as dark as the woman in the pictures above. I am more of a mocha color), I honestly don't care what color a person is as long as he treats me with respect.

However, I can't always say the same towards most men. I've had men of other races admit to me they aren't attracted to, or would never date/bring home a black woman.
Which yes, that is their right, nothing wrong with having a preference! It honestly comes down to what someone's attracted to! It's just a shame skin color can affect someone's attraction.

[insteadfew]

What's mocha colour? And can you find such level of dark skinned man/woman sexy and appealing?

[Anonymous]

This sounds, looks, and shockingly (sarcasm) is a racist question... "Can you be attracted to a dark skinned person?" and then posts two pics of the same woman? Are you trying to gauge whether society will be okay with you potentially trying to date a person of similar skin color? Do you reside or are a member of a colorist or racist community? Are you possibly pushing a narrative that darker skin is or will be an issue when it comes to attraction?

This type of question is not innocent; it's steeped in white supremacist and colorist attitudes and belief systems. I get that there are people who 1) try to say they "don't see color" or whom 2) have a preference for what range of skin tone they themselves find 'acceptable'. But pushing those sentiments along, as your question does, is not helping the problem; it's only adding support to those negative outlooks.

[Dargil]

Good G0d yes!!! I am by no means "color blind" or even indifferent to race. Any shade from Taylor Swift to Grace Jones has their own jewels of beauty. Part of it is the variations and contrasts.

[Agape93]

Why would their skin tone be an issue? It's just pigmentation.

[insteadfew]

Because of the way it looks, it might be an issue especially if you are pale white

[Agape93]

What's wrong with the way it looks? I am pretty pale depending in the time of year. I've no issues with it.

[insteadfew]

The way it looks especially in contrast next to a pale Skinned person

[Agape93]

I didn't have an issue, so what's wrong with the way it looks in contrast? Do you have issue with it?

[Agape93]

Well? You've been on for at least two hours since your last reply to me, so answer it already.

[insteadfew]

Ya i do feel that i can't be attracted to a quite dark skinned woman, somewhat dark brown is ok but approaching black is a bit too much also because they'd have much darker genitals which seems so ugly

[Agape93]

So the color of their genitals is the issue? So she could be a bombshell, smart, kind, loving etc. But her crotch being dark is a deal breaking issue? That's quite pathetic, ngl

[insteadfew]

I mean if she's already dark skinned then her genitals would be much darker... How can she be a bombshell if she's already quite dark skinned? Also it might get embarrassing for me to flaunt her in society.. No 😂

[Agape93]

So you inherently think a woman can't can't stunning if she has the wrong skin tone, and think it would be embarrassing to show public affection to a woman of the wrong skin tone? Am I correct?

[insteadfew]

Wrong skin tone.. Wrong isn't the correct word to use. And yeah i can't be sexually attracted to a person who seems quite dark and dull

[Agape93]

Then what would be the term you would use?

[insteadfew]

Can't say exactly which word

[insteadfew]

by the way your partner's genital colour doesn't bother you especially if it's really dark?

[Agape93]

No, why would it bother me? And yeah you can. Pick a word or don't complain about what word I pick

[insteadfew]

Because it would look kind of unattractive and creep?

[Agape93]

Not to me, I don't care about something so inconsequential. Since you didn't provide an alternate term, I think it's safe to say you meant wrong skin tone. Or are you going to keep disputing that?

[insteadfew]

Unappealing skin tone would be a better option.. no?

[insteadfew]

Would it take some time for you to getting used to touching such dark genitals especially with mouth?

[Agape93]

That means the same damn thing. Just with softer language No, again, the color is wholly inconsequential to me. Why do you find skin tone to be such a issue?

[PrettyPriya]

Just when I thought this site couldn't get more racists... this...

[Agape93]

Yeap. Sad that they still are so plain about this.

[insteadfew]

@PrettyPriya it's not about race

[Agape93]

Clearly it is, when you say women can't be attractive when they're too dark skinned.

[PrettyPriya]

Yep.

[insteadfew]

@PrettyPriya dark skin and race are two different things

[Agape93]

True. But wtf do you think it means, when you say people are not attractive if they are dark skinned? Do you seriously not grasp the fact that skin tone and race are usually interlocked?

[insteadfew]

Not really. Maybe you have that perception. But take for example India. People in India have vast different skin tone from light brown to dark brown to blackish skin tone... and they're all of same race

[Agape93]

And yet the Indian still viewed this as racist, as do I, when I have friends all over the fucking place. From America to India to Lebanon. Nice try.

[OfMiceandMen]

Girl in the photo looks awesome to me. Sexy smile, fit and attractive. Why would her skin color matter?

[TheUniqueOne96]

Yeah.

I've seen dark skinned women who are attractive.

[JosyJosy]

Yeap. Doesn't matter much.

[insteadfew]

Matters a bit though?

[JosyJosy]

About as much as it matters for the person I'm dating.

[insteadfew]

What would matter you about his/her skin colour? The contrast between your pale skin and his/her dark skin?

[JosyJosy]

Skin color not, but rather culture. It's interesting to get in contact with different cultures.

[FunkyMonkee]

Been there, done that!

[LiamJHayden]

Character is relevant. Color is not.

[Nigjt]

I'm going to say this in this way if u are a Woman an u want to see if I am liking what I see come sit next to me an make me notice you in some type of way like grabbing my leg rubbing my cock rubbing my chest playing with my tummy kissing me sitting in my lap doing any of that no matter how dark how light skinned you may be you will definitely find out what happens next so color is in an issue for me.
God Bless

[insteadfew]

Skin colour is an issue?

[Preeti161101]

Nothing wrong with it

[insteadfew]

What about the way it looks especially in contrast next to a pale Skinned person