Can You Be With Someone Who Finds Anal "Icky"?

so i was watching withcindy on YT rating kinks and she said she draws a line at butt stuff because it's very unhygienic, icky even. and i was like yeah, butt stuff is gross.

is this a dealbreaker for you?
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  • I can be with someone who thinks it's icky. Especially as I don't find it too arousing myself.

    If you want it hygienic, you have to use anal douche, and that act itself already kills the mood for me. I tried it twice, never again. It just didn't feel right.

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  • I can be definitely be with someone who does not do anal. I am the same I hate anal sex and I only have done it a couple just cause she wanted me too. To me it not pleasurable or natural and I consider it a one way street and that out. It is also gross and I see bad happening if you get what I mean.

  • I really don't see what's so great about anal sex. I prefer vag sex all the way! Much nicer feeling, softer and cleaner!

    Although it doesn't mean I don't enjoy sticking my finger or my tongue in a lady's ass every now and then 😝

Most Helpful Girl

  • Depends I wasn’t willing but now hit on my 8 hours a day

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It's preferred, I don't want anything to do with someone's butt. Being into butt stuff is the real deal breaker.

  • I don’t think it’s a deal breaker, but I do like anal. I’d have to see how it goes and if I’d miss it.

  • Yes, because I too find it icky and not appealing.

  • It's not a deal breaker for me but it's a consideration.

  • I agree it is super gross. If you are unhygienic about it. I would gladly spend three hours in the shower cleaning or on the toilet with an enema so I could make it hygienic if that is an issue…

  • I have zero interest in anal. If she was into anal, that would be a problem.

  • I find it icky too

  • Not a issue

  • I can, I don't see why anal should be a reason to not give someone a chance

  • Yeap, because I agree

  • I PREFER IT!! I'm not AT ALL interested in doing ANYTHING with her shit factory!

  • No, I have never tried it either.

  • Yes I find anal icky myself

  • Nah not at all. Anal is hyped up in porn, mich like rough face fucking and fake squirting.

    That doesn't mean I'm not into anal, but there are plenty of other fun things to be getting on with!

  • Yup. Cause anal is gross.

  • It IS icky.

  • Yes. I find it repulsive.

  • Big yes. I find it "icky" as well. Sex should be vaginal. I agree with the hygiene issues;

  • Yeah I can go without it, not really into it

  • I'd not say an absolute deal breaker, but certainly would be missed.

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