Can you c*m without touching yourself and/or being touched?

Masturbation is very rare for me. I only touch myself down there during phone sex and a lot of the times not even then. I started watching soft porn late nights the summer after 6th grade as if it was just another movie. But i never masturbated. I had sex for the first time and not exactly by choice when i was in 8th grade. But still, i never masturbated. I tried phone sex for the first time in 11th grade and i squirted from his words alone. But still, i didn't masturbate.

I masturbated for the first time when i was two months from turning 21. It became extremely addicting and i didn't even need porn or anything. I’d just close my eyes and go at it. I didn't like who i’d become so i stopped masturbating after doing it 3 months straight, every day, not including menstrual weeks. That Summer, i watched some harcore tumblr vids of people cumming while playing with their nipples. So nipple play became my thing for the next 2 years. I could cum from that alone and didn't need to masturbate.

Afterwhile, i got tired of that and reverted to just focusing on sound. With the right sounds, and sound alone, I can orgasm like crazy and repeatedly. On occasion, I like to lie on my back and grind into my sheets while slowly opening and closing my thighs. I’ll occasionally give the nipple a flick or lick or two if i want to cum faster like within 5 mins tops. But in general, I just dont need to masturbate unless I’m trying to tease someone.

Mentalgasms have been my thing for a while now.
My sex drive isn't that high unless i’m legit having sex (in which I then can't bring myself to stop unless I’m being thrown off.) I dont even watch porn as much anymore. Sometimes twice a week, other times thrice a month. But Do you in general need to masturbate/have sex/get oral to cum or can you also cum from just seeing/hearing things?
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I’ve always called it mentalgasm. You just basically need to hear/see something that turns you on so much that you just release instantly. Its such a crazy explosive feeling. And you dont just feel it down there but in your brain as well kinda like a good brain freeze. Its cool to know that some of you can as well. Guess its not so rare after all 🙌
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  • Amazing

    • Very

    • I could never believe without touching how could one orgasam , someone also had written that a girl could orgasam crossed leg wonder how it works for you people

    • When you cross your legs, it puts pressure on the clit. That helps to cum as well. Thats similar to how i said girls can grind and open/close their legs

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  • I had two wet dreams in my life.
    Tje first one, forgot who I dreamed of. The second one was the female terminator from the 3rd film, rise of the machines. I was playing with her tits. In my dreams.

  • With absolutely no contact whatsoever? Possibly. I never actually tried phone sex but, I used to know a girl who did phone sex. We were sitting together in a club and she just started whispering in my ear. It was amazing! One of the hottest things ever. She only did it for a very short period of time, but I think I probably could have.

    • Yea i think you could have

  • You squirted from his words alone? Getting wet, totally understandable, but squirting?

    • Yes. Aural/audio is a powerful tool for me

  • It's only happened a few times, but there was some kind of friction involved.

    • Lmao are you grinding against the bed

  • I don't think that is possible for men:

    In my experience I have never cummed without being touched.. Even with grinding I might get hard.. and twice came close to cumming but she knew how to dance otherwise no never

    • Its possible. I helped my exes do it

    • Without ever touching them?

    • Yep. Voice only. And sometimes sight

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  • Normally I need physical stimulation but there was one period when i was in high school that a girl gave me 2 erotica books, it was crazy, i was trying to study at night but i was very curious about those books because i used to hear that girls back then were into erotica more than normal porn, so i read half a book without touching myself and when i went to the bathroom, i had cum in my underwear. Preety crazy, I wish i could do it again

    • Damn thats hot. I like audio porn more than erotica. I hate reading


  • "On occasion, I like to lie on my back and grind into my sheets while slowly opening and closing my thighs.". Haha. I can confirm that this works.

    • (Though, in my case, I would be lying on my front.)

    • I can't wait to try missionary position for the first time. It's going to be epic. 😂

    • [NOTE to the readers: "can't wait" is a figure of speech. I can wait. Don't worry. :) ]

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  • Yes, I have done that and it felt hot but yet different.

    • Different in a good way?

    • Yes indeed, I enjoyed it.

  • I feel that it's different for guys we need some touching or stroking to get off. Usually hearing it and seeing gets us ready to have sex than complete the task of cumming.

    • Not all guys. I trained my exes well

    • Well maybe if a girl trained me then maybe.

  • I’ve had a couple gfs that’s happened to while their blowing me. As far as me. Not even close. I haven’t been able to clear my mind for a long time.

  • Haven’t been able to do that without physical contact there

    • Oh i see

  • I mean pre cum but not ejaculate cum lol.

  • I can get very close to cumming without being touched. It usually happens when I am going down on my wife and she gets ridiculously excited…. and cums for me. A ridiculous turn on/fun.

    • Niiice

  • Girl!! I'm watching Joe Millionaire Carolyn is so basic. Anyways Steven is way smarter kurt has officially turned me off because of his stupidity. Steven already said kurt is ignoring red flags and falling too hard. Girl come to NC and get your man.🤣.

    But to answer your questions yes.

    • Lmao im not into kurt but i find him so sweet for even wanting kove. All steven trying to do is fck. But like you said, steven knows these gold diggers dont want love

    • Girl Steven been kissing everybody all night like 🤣 he playing games sis. The attorney Rachel gotta be mad he told her tha same shit he told Annie then kissed them both

    • But girl Carolyn gotta go. I'm not done watching ep2 . I hope she goes.

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  • I know I'm late... But damn that was hott...
    As an asexual, i do a lot of self exploration. So... That's the kinda stuff in into. Hands free orgasms, edging, etc. Non traditional orgasms.
    I would love to understand a mental orgasms. Or tantric orgasms.
    I can have multiple orgasms through the prostate and not touching myself. Back to back.
    I can orgasm through belly button stimulation is it's the right person. It's really hard to do myself.
    But i would love to learn mental orgasms. But i prob would get carried away.
    You're awesome.

    • Wow a belly button

    • Yea.. believe me. I was just as surprised as you are. But it was soooooo good. Lol

  • That be hard to do for both sexes not less they rib up against something

    • Not that hard

    • Ok maybe that's why some girls don't consider the shower head water an rubbing up against pillows masterbating

    • 🤣🤣👍

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  • No I don't, i can do it in my sleep or just from looking at porn

  • Yes I just think about an actor and it works for me. I have discovered it recently.

    • My imagination doesn't work that well in terms of sexual stuff. I have to hear moaning or balls slapping against the girl when he's pounding her lol

    • I'm actually really turned on by his overall looks and personality. I imagine him as different characters that he hasn't even played.

    • I can't do it when I think about any other guy.

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  • if I'm really turned on a lapdance would already make me cum

    • Thats hot

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