Can you really spend your life feeling no attraction towards anyone at all?

Can that happen? You simply have no attraction towards anyone (neither men nor women) at all. You never had a crush on someone ever. Even hugging or kissing someone in a romantic manner feels weird to you and gross.

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Then people confuse you for this ''oh great person of high morals'' when it's not about that. You just never liked anyone in a romantic nor sexual manner ever. You feel no attraction towards people.
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  • I can. I like being alone, so that would suit me. The only problem I have is I have high levels of testosterone and need sex. If it wasn’t for that I’d never have any interaction with humans

    • Then I must be lucky to never feel any attraction towards guys nor women. As a kid, I used to laugh at Disney love stories. They never made sense to me. I never understood the kissing parts.

    • It could be a blessing. It might save time, money, headaches and heartbreaks.

    • Indeed it is. I think that's why I always have more money to travel and do other fun activities while my friends don't.

  • Yes , u still can still do other things and be happy

    U know live is not just only about getting boyfriend/girlfriend, being in relationships , get married.

    • yeah I enjoy traveling, trekking and going to the ocean.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I believe you can. Not everyone is interested in relationships and/or sex. There's nothing wrong with that.

    • True. It saves me unnecessary break-ups, drama, headache, heartbreaks and money.

    • Yes, that is true. You don't have to date someone just because others are doing the same. Thanks for the MHO.

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  • It's called aromantic asexual, you can also call it undead, saw the zombies in movies? :)

    • Thank you. I always suspected I was different from my friends. I still go to parties and drink but with just for the sake of talking with friends and enjoying the party. I feel nothing when getting hit on by guys. I have no sex drive not even drunk. I'm not a goody-two shoes just because of no sex. I don't even care for marriage.

    • I don't care for sex, nor marriage nor kids,,, neither.

    • Yea not all girls who have no sex are goody two shoes I guess, as hard it to believe. :)

      https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Virgin_Power

  • That would be so sad.

    • I guess but I can't help who I am. As someone else said it, I'm an aromantic, asexual. I feel no attraction towards people and have zero sex drives.

  • Asexual

    • yeah pretty much it. That's the only reason I'm a virgin, nothing else. I guess it's a blessing in a way.

  • Yep it really sucks because how are you able to connect with someone when you feel nothing at all.

    • by just having friends

  • No, it is impossible unless you eat maybe a lot of shit or die very young

    • That's the only reason I'm a virgin though and it's not out of morals nor waiting till marriage. Nope. I have no attraction towards neither gender. I don't like people in a romantic nor sexual manner.

    • Nothing bad in that, but then again maybe you did not felt real arrousal

    • true. I'm tired of getting confused for a woman of high morals though. Too many people think that having no sex means it represents being innocent in every other areas of life. It doesn't.

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