Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Can you share some tips on how to finger a guy’s ass?
Anonymous
My boyfriend and I are very into butt play. We have a lot of anal, but recently we’ve been wanting to switch it up. I want to try to finger him in the ass, I’ve eaten his ass before. Any tips on how to do it on a guy?
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Thanks for the advice everyone!! These are very awesome tips. Also, didn’t know that so many guys are into it - it’s great to know lol
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4 32Just be very gentle!
Start with a back rub with lotion, work your way down his body to his ass, Drip more lotion into the drack of his ass, then slowly work the lotion in.
A lot of spit
Lots of lube. I suggest buying toys though. Youd love pegging him. Hed love it too. Start slow make him breathe. Buy a couple different size plugs and work your way up. Also probably safest if you wear gloves. If your nails cut him he can get really sick from infection. And dont try too much at once or you can really hurt him
Damn I like the experience you're talking. Yeah he would definitely like having his girlfriend back up in the ass and use toys. I wouldn't mind seeing what it's like to have you fuck me in the ass with a strap-on never had that definitely not into guys not bisexual. I like pussy only so having a girl take a little bit of control not only fingering me and hitting my prostate and milking it which feels amazing and having my cock down her throat at the same time as fucking hot especially when I come in her mouth and she kisses me. And I think you'd be amazing to fuck me in the ass I think you do a really good job the way you talk about it
Lube your finger with your own vaginal juice then slowly finger his anus.
Use KY, insert your finger up to the second knuckle and then you'll be massaging the prostate. You can thrust your finger but the back and forth doesn't need to be very substantial. Making that "come here" motion with your finger might get him going. Sucking his dick while fingering his ass is one option, or having him on hands and knees while you finger his ass and give him a hand job from behind is another great option. If you can manage it, have him flat on his back, straddle his thigh and hump it while you blow him and finger his ass - everybody gets off!
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ugh it's disgusting. I thought they only practiced butt fingering when constipated. which I would never approve of. my stomach turned upside down.
Clean it out with a douche first and then use lube and a small vibrator or dildo.
I would assume it's no different that him doing it to you, and all the same things would apply. Lots of lube, him be relaxed, etc. But I have no experience or interest in it so I'm only basing this on what I've heard.
And on guy said consent, and absolutely! lol Even if you think he'd like it, make sure by verbal communication. He may not be lol
Yeah I had to constantly ask him if he’s still okay with it lol
Lube. If you have nails, consider a glove with a cotton ball in the tip of the finger... nails hurt!
Think of the p-spot as analogous to your g-spot. It's about the size of a walnut and will feel spongy. If you are entering him palm up, it will be at your fingertip. Gently massage it using a 'come here' finger motion.
He may also like thrusting as well.
Thank you for this! I’m really looking for tips on what movements I should do and what I should be looking for while inside. So that means I have to move my finger towards his penis in a “come here” motion?
Yeah, like towards his pubes. That’s more where the prostate is. It’s passed the penis. Good luck.
Lots of lube, trim your nails and make sure to take it nice and slow.