Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Can your boyfriend rape you? Or is that that normal?
Anonymous
I mean is it possible for your own boyfriend to rape you? I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and I am very insecure and never feel comfortable enough to do things with my boyfriend.. And it's been that way with guys I've dated in the past too. But last night things got alittle out of control and we both were alittle drunk and I didn't mind doing things but then he held me down and I even told him to stop and I tried to get up but he forced me down.. Then the whole time he was very violent and after he told me if I was useless. But today he is telling me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me and that's how " it's suppose to feel" and you're " suppose to hit them and make them hurt" "it's normal" I just don't know what to do?
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17 15Troll harder
You have chosen to be with him, you were never forced to go out with him so you have consented to it. Consent in a situation regarding sex is not rape.
If you aren't comfortable with this man sexually you shouldn't be with him and need to break up with him, but it was also wrong of him to be voilent. Maybe find a boyfriend who doesn't want to have sex
Choosing to date someone doesn't mean that you're giving them consent to take advantage of their body and have sex with you after you refuse.
no, but dating without sharing ones body or anything sexual is basically a friendship.
Consenting to dates is not even in the same fucking ballpark as consenting to accept the risk of pregnancy and STDs. What the fuck is wrong with you? o_O
That's rape. It doesn't matter who he is, if he forced you, it's rape. You should leave him before it gets worse.
STAB THE BITCH UP
It's not normal and yes, if you're in a relationship you can still be raped. Most people are raped by those they know. What he did sounds really abusive and what he is saying isn't true.
Now if he's going along the mindset of BDSM, even then the conditions are pre discussed and there is a safe word if one person wants to stop. No means no.
This guy is a psycho. Get away from him and get help. That is NOT normal and that is NOT okay.