Could you happily have sex with only one person for the rest of your life?

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Or does it scare you just thinking about it?

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

@wowwgirl Yes absolutely right I can, and as you very well know I'm with him (my husband) right now.

elizamichale1 · Accepted Answer

Oh plzzzzzzzzzz dont be that cruel to me

kaylaS91 · Answer

I’ve had sex with two guys in my life (I don’t really count the first though as we were both drunk as a skunk and neither of us finished) and I’m perfectly fine with the idea of only ever having sex with my boyfriend till death do us part. Not to say that I don’t think about what it might be like and sure, it turns me on. However.. that’s one of those things that I’m 100% okay with keeping as a fantasy.

MORPHEUS_12 · Answer

I have been with the one and only person in my life. I have known my husband since elementary school. We started dating in 10th grade. We have been together for 30 years and officially married on paper for 21 years. We credit the success of our relationship to not having kids.

Vero4567 · Answer

When i love my man, and I will only have sex with him and of course he should do so

Paris13 · Answer

My Ali.. Yes, girl!!! xxoo

bigmisssunshine · Answer

Sure. Doesn’t scare me at all.

RemoErdosain · Answer

The thought doesn't scare me at all, and I totally would. My commitment to the other person is the least of my worries when it comes to relationships. I know I can commit

CreativeMumble · Answer

The thought does scare me a bit.
But, if the partner satisfies me, and I get what I need from them, then one final partner is all I need. As long as we can evolve together and experiment with new things.

Lliam · Answer

Yes. But I was in my mid-30s before I started thinking that way. At that point, I started thinking about finding the right life-partner and settling down. But up to then, beginning when I was 16, I would get involved in relationships but eventually break up and move on because I actually could not see myself having sex with the same person for the rest of my life. I absolutely did not want to settle down, get married, have kids or any of that crap. I wanted to gain life experience and have fun. But that's just me.
I finally got married when I was 42 and have been happily married now for 24 years. I picked a great women.

Zannika02 · Answer

Yes hope so one day

Quackthulu · Answer

Yeah, probably. As long as it isn't ONLY that one person.

1Anon · Answer

I could happily only have sex with my husband for the rest of my life.

katiesmuff · Answer

I certainly hope so!

cheapshotbob · Answer

yes i could be but i do get the every day fear but thats from not being really fortunate too find a girl friend yet but im in no rush.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, I could be happy with one woman for the rest of my life. Bring it on!

Regmorus · Answer

I don't know. If they are suitable for me and them to be with each other and destiny brings me and them together and they want it I would switch 0 to 1 I guess, lol;)

fall_angel-86 · Answer

I have been happily having six with the same man for over 16 years now and will continue to do so

Can-I-Get-A-DoOver · Answer

It would be great. I’d love it. We’d know each other’s turn ons and turn offs and could be adventurous without embarrassment. Do some role play.

summiter · Answer

Of course. That is why I slept around a lot before getting engaged, so I would have fun in my teens and early 20s. I am with someone I hope to spend the rest of my life and my sexual life with.

ThiccBoai · Answer

That's kind of what I'm looking for. One woman I can share the rest of my life with. Having sex with only her would be absolutely fine. Unless we invite someone else to join in, I'm not gonna have sex with others.

But if I can only have sex with one without knowing if she is the one would suck. I would have to guess if she's right and if we break up I would be 'fucked'

Berethor · Answer

Yea as long as she is worthy of such commitment by not being a slut, and preferably not a frigid too.

Jjpayne · Answer

It's tough because, one girl gagger recently posted a question, can I love my man and feel more sexually towards another man... It's the idea that over time you can get bored with your partner and simply be attacted to others for simply a different experience. For me, I want only one partner. But will I be tempted for another. I would be stupid to say I would not. I think most people male or female will have those moments. It's only human nature. But the ability to be faithful and remain faithful is the true test. That and keeping intimacy as interesting as possible. Trying different things and doing different things as much as you can

Just_someone23 · Answer

Yes I can, my parents are married and just had their 26 wedding anniversary last night. My grandparents married for 62 years If they can do it. Why can't I

SphynxUK · Answer

I could.  But relationships don’t last forever, so it isn’t likely.

DrippingHoney · Answer

If its the right guy I could

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

i would, the word could implies it's a choice

Kaneki05 · Answer

I could for sure and it is sweet like your first been your only one for the rest of your life but it is a bit unrealistic. And i think it could be better to have a couple sexual experiences with others just to know what it is like and how others are different and practice. Also I don't know if this is a thing but sounds like it would be what if there is more chance of cheating if they only stayed to one person for sexual experiences or maybe more likely to break up I don't know if this true or not but would be good to get data on these factors and see which way logically it way's Tbh i am guessing it does increases chances of it going wrong were if you have 2-3 sexual partners in the past hmm i am gonna guess less likely.

Paige90 · Answer

No way!! I want to experience it with different people before I settle down to just one.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

I have been intimate with one woman (The wife) in my whole life and she has been intimate with one man (Me) and we have been doing it for 12 years so far and it's just getting better and better. So far! Yes, i can be happy and so does she.

slatyb · Answer

Yes, I could, and I expect I will.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

absolutely! i've met her and my time with her was amazing. far too short but i'll have the memories

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

If the sexual compatibility is there then sure, but that in itself is a bit of a catch-22.

Both partners would need to be willing to do things with the other than don't necessarily coincide with their own preferences. This is where things always go south. Most people if they don't appreciate the kink or fetish that the other wants, refuse to do it or try simply because they get nothing themselves from it, so it then becomes a "I don't want to do that" rather than "sure I will do this for you if you do this other thing for me.."

There's just little to no give-and-take in sex, and usually ends up with one partner wanting more than the other is willing to give.

I can't imagine just leaving it there and never having an outlet for the bottled up desires.

Bhavin2184 · Answer

Yeah..

Reaperbot666 · Answer

sure if she is willing to also do the same. much rather be in a exclusive relationship with a woman. then go out and hookup with Randoms. who could have all kinds of nasty things. currently single but sex is one of the 4 pillars to a healthy relationship. physically attraction, mental attraction, emotional attraction and sexual attraction. if all for are in sync with each other a relationship has a much better chance to last long term. key is to spice things up once in a while so they sex life does not become mundane and boring. helps to keep an open mind to new ideas your partner might have.

girlzruleboyzdrool · Answer

Yes That’s my life and it’s perfect with my one and only Bc sex for me, is so much more than sex It’s making love

Tulsi_92 · Answer

Nope. I'm into open relations

Agape93 · Answer

Nope.

0112358 · Answer

That would be an improvement over the expected zero.

Dargil · Answer

Yes, I can.

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

There’s always fantasy...

Umarkhan001 · Answer

Yeah sure as long we are so in love with each other and have real feelings and respect for each other

Don-_-Don · Answer

Yeah I could, unlike some people, I'm not so greedy on having more than one woman. One pussy is all I need to pound till the day I die.

Chiefbenttwig · Answer

Yes I could.  If God wanted me to have more than one wife he would have equipped me with more than one cock

ronny212 · Answer

Ill be happy with that and if she still wants to see other men while she with me ill be cool with it because itll make her happy

JosyJosy · Answer

Sure! If it's the right partner, all good!

Anpu23 · Answer

In the past I was horrible. But I am quite content with just my wife.

Ripper_E · Answer

Yes. If I love and an attracted to that person.

JustinTheGreat · Answer

Yes I can

Phoenix98 · Answer

Assuming the capability and chemistry is there then yeah I'm completely fine with it in fact that is ideal for me.

AndrewMG · Answer

Is that one person Zooey Deschanel? I mean that's like asking you or @1828avaava1828 if you'd settle for being with GSP for the rest of your life lol I'm as much team Zooey as you are team George lol

yamajazaki · Answer

Sure why not, if im dating im only attracted to that person

ChiTown33 · Answer

Easily.

chriscdi · Answer

i would, i dont really need sex to live, one girl is enough for me

Browneye57 · Answer

No, it's fine. It's so much better with someone you're committed to, are in love with, and rely on. The more time you spend together fucking, the better you are at it. I guarantee it.
ONS's completely suck in comparison. You'll see. ;)

jamesgoldman · Answer

Sure... I only have 30-35 years left at best anyway

GermanGuy87 · Answer

I think I could if I was in love. I've never been in forever love

rastapharrell · Answer

In my young days now. No I'm fucking as good as many as I can before I commit. You only alre to have this much fun once. I don't plan on settling no time soon

Massageman · Answer

I think that's what I am doing with my wife. Wait! Let me check! uh, let me see- uh, yeah, that's my wife all righty!

FriedPickles1218 · Answer

Yes. Quality over quantity every time. I'm still a virgin but I dont give a phukk. I'd rather wait a disgustingly long time for one incredible long term partner than to have had fooled around with many different people just for quick gratification.

kimbim · Answer

Well I hope so, cuz I'm engaged to get married to my high school sweetheart

worldscolide · Answer

im married, so most definitely yes

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