Could you happily have sex with only one person for the rest of your life?

Question

Or does it scare you just thinking about it?

Jjpayne · Answer

It's tough because, one girl gagger recently posted a question, can I love my man and feel more sexually towards another man... It's the idea that over time you can get bored with your partner and simply be attacted to others for simply a different experience. For me, I want only one partner. But will I be tempted for another. I would be stupid to say I would not. I think most people male or female will have those moments. It's only human nature. But the ability to be faithful and remain faithful is the true test. That and keeping intimacy as interesting as possible. Trying different things and doing different things as much as you can

Just_someone23 · Answer

Yes I can, my parents are married and just had their 26 wedding anniversary last night. My grandparents married for 62 years If they can do it. Why can't I

SphynxUK · Answer

I could.  But relationships don’t last forever, so it isn’t likely.

DrippingHoney · Answer

If its the right guy I could

ChocoBrownieMonster · Answer

i would, the word could implies it's a choice

Paige90 · Answer

No way!! I want to experience it with different people before I settle down to just one.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

I have been intimate with one woman (The wife) in my whole life and she has been intimate with one man (Me) and we have been doing it for 12 years so far and it's just getting better and better. So far! Yes, i can be happy and so does she.

slatyb · Answer

Yes, I could, and I expect I will.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I could for sure and it is sweet like your first been your only one for the rest of your life but it is a bit unrealistic. And i think it could be better to have a couple sexual experiences with others just to know what it is like and how others are different and practice. Also I don't know if this is a thing but sounds like it would be what if there is more chance of cheating if they only stayed to one person for sexual experiences or maybe more likely to break up I don't know if this true or not but would be good to get data on these factors and see which way logically it way's Tbh i am guessing it does increases chances of it going wrong were if you have 2-3 sexual partners in the past hmm i am gonna guess less likely.

Sevenpointfive · Answer

absolutely! i've met her and my time with her was amazing. far too short but i'll have the memories

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

If the sexual compatibility is there then sure, but that in itself is a bit of a catch-22.

Both partners would need to be willing to do things with the other than don't necessarily coincide with their own preferences. This is where things always go south. Most people if they don't appreciate the kink or fetish that the other wants, refuse to do it or try simply because they get nothing themselves from it, so it then becomes a "I don't want to do that" rather than "sure I will do this for you if you do this other thing for me.."

There's just little to no give-and-take in sex, and usually ends up with one partner wanting more than the other is willing to give.

I can't imagine just leaving it there and never having an outlet for the bottled up desires.

Bhavin2184 · Answer

Yeah..

Reaperbot666 · Answer

sure if she is willing to also do the same. much rather be in a exclusive relationship with a woman. then go out and hookup with Randoms. who could have all kinds of nasty things. currently single but sex is one of the 4 pillars to a healthy relationship. physically attraction, mental attraction, emotional attraction and sexual attraction. if all for are in sync with each other a relationship has a much better chance to last long term. key is to spice things up once in a while so they sex life does not become mundane and boring. helps to keep an open mind to new ideas your partner might have.