Me and my boyfriend were seeing each other for a year before we did it and I know he was ready any time but I was a virgin and wanted to feel fully comfortable first. He never pushed me to anything and always waited until I was ready. I don't think not having sex is a bad thing and should be a reason for a couple to break up, unless someone is only in it for the sex. Yes sex is a large part of a relationship but there's also other things and if someone truly loves and cares about you they are going to wait for it.
0 0 0 0Well your question kinda confused me. But personally, I would wait for them if that's what they want.
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At 18... most likely. However, the real truth its the guy that is the wait. I'd be willing to bet you tole him No a long time ago and he is still running with it. Give yourself better opportunities, as in timing, privacy, and location. Also, its allowed to get as close as you can to sex without actually having sex. Once that is happening, its only a small step to admitting, "I want you inside me."
1 0 0 0Only a year? a virgin girl might even worth waiting until marriage for her. :)
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3 19I could wait if she was the right one. In the meantime I would hope she would give me some handjobs? Your thoughts?
0 0 0 0I guess because I've had sex and know that there is no mysterious thing about it anymore is the reason why I say no. And the fact that that person may be uncomfortable and because they are inexperienced you may have a bad experience with them. I think a person should get to know their body and they should get to know it with another person. Because the myth of The virginity is old and is nothing really miraculous that comes from breaking a person's virginity.
0 0 0 0Honestly no I don't think I would wait a year no
0 0 0 0I believe a thriving relationship should progress into sexuality. Without it, it is only a friend and men make better friends. But there's plenty to do before intercourse, and yes I could wait a year.
0 0 0 0If i really thought she was the one then sure. I was a late bloomer, i get how difficult it can be. I'm grateful my ex gave me some time (only took weeks for me, not a year). Sex isn't the be all and end all. My OH is pregnant, first trimester, she's been feeling rough for a while, haven't had any in 6/7 weeks. Sure it's not pleasant but it's not a big deal
0 0 0 0if she is actually not ready and thats actually the reason and i love her then yea id wait
0 0 0 0Longest i've had to wait for a virgin was a month and when we did have sex she said it was the most amazing experience she's had and worth waiting for.
Depends on how patient the guy is, can he hold out that long.
I held out for 22 years before I lost my virginity.0 0 0 0If I was actually in love I would
0 0 0 0No, you can still give eachother head and handjobs it's not a big deal
0 0 0 0Yes of course
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0 0 0 0You asked the opposite. So I will wait a year. I won't wait more than two.
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0 0 0 0No, I couldn’t wait that long.
0 0 0 0I could wait as long as she needs.
0 0 0 0With my first partner, I wainting 9 month.
So now, I can wait more than a day 😅0 0 0 0if you ain't gettin sex dump her
0 0 0 0Of course.
0 1 0 0I am waiting for marriage; so that would be an easy yes.
0 0 0 0O yeah sure.
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