Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Could you wait until marriage for sex?
Queen_naki5 Yoda
I started dating a very religious guy. He's amazing by the way. Very strong faith, very educated and has a good head on his shoulders. I honestly love his spirit and his fun nature. He's a keeper. He's religious, where as I'm more spiritual. He attends church regularly, I don't have a church that I attend often, but I go to a few churches every other Sunday usually to hear the word or just tune into tv church. What I like about him is that he wants a future with me and that's not something I get very often. He wants marriage and children. I ultimately want that one day as well. He also wants to wait until marriage for everything. We've already kissed and held hands, but it's not going past that. A lot of my friends ask me how I could do that and I honestly have no issues with it. He actually was very honest from the beginning and told me exactly what he wanted. I knew what I was getting myself into. Could you wait until marriage to have sex? Yes or no? Why or why not?
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What Girls & Guys Said
23 43Congrats for you. He seems to respet you, and you guys have a lot of chemistry beyond just "physical and sexual"
Thanks a lot.
Well I am waiting and I still don't know how lol but I am waiting till marriage
Yeah
I did it when I was 17.
noooooooooooooooooooooooooo
It would be extremely hard to wait. I would fantasize about the girl a LOT. If I loved her enough to want to spend my life with her. I would make it work.
That's sweet.
it takes a strong couple to do this
I'm still virgin and yeah i will wait until marriage ^^
big 'NO'
Yes—I’m actually waiting for marriage for the same reason as your boyfriend, so it is just something I’ve always known.
i mean i could, but i kinda don't want to
Could? Yes.
But I'd be extremely nervous about doing so. I simply have no confidence of sexual compatibility. It's not about the stuff you can learn. It's the desire and priority and value placed on it (and similar tastes)
In particular someone who had sex before and now wanted to stop would be an immediate goodbye.
If I love her and she loves me too, yes I would/could. I'd definitly prefer to have a girlfriend without having sex than having no girlfriend.
Yes. I married my wife last year and waited a whole two years for her to turn sixteen. So yes I could wait.
I hope that's a joke.
well sorry to burst your bubble but if he's dating someone outside of his religion thats a sin so he isn't religious.
We're both Christian. He's just more into it than I am. I don't go as hard. I'm faithful and spiritual.
"hes more into it than i am" honey... your not christian just because you say you are... im afraid people like you are not real Christians... notashamedofthegospel.com/.../
Honey? Just stop. You're in no way shape or form have the right to try to tell ME what I am. You need to quit while you're ahead. I don't care about your ideology! Also, don't call me HONEY. I'm not your honey and I'm certainly not sweet right now. Buzz off!!
lol u mad... ur not real christain hon
Okay.
I have waited till now... And I can wait for a girl if she is really worth it
Most people voted Yes? Are we serious? Wot happened? Has everyone gone retarded?
Whoever waits till marriage... has zero respect from me...
Why is that? Maybe people just feel it's worth it.
Then they're bored of their lives...
Yes, still waiting for that..
Faith is not a virtue.