Virginity never had any value for me. I never had sex with one.
It seems like women who remain virgins have the idea that they are going to marry a Prince Charming who will be her first and only sex partner. They will have children and live happily ever after.
I wish them luck, but it's a naive dream, in my opinion.
In reality, you have to search for partners. You don't score Mr. Perfect the first time around. Most people have several relationships before finding a perfect match. And you can't know if you are a perfect match without having a sexual relationship.
The search process is also really enjoyable, whereas remaining a virgin must be kind of a drag.
It's an old fashioned, patriarchal notion to believe that a woman is "used goods" if she has had sex before marriage. Funny how they don't think the same thing about men.
Should have made this a poll. Yes, I do care and appreciate it, massively, probably more than any other single aspect of a women, since being a virgin is the best indication of THE number one most important trait in a potential partner
willpower.
Because without a strong will, there can never be strong trust. I am from Canada, and I am a non religious white / jewish man, and a minority holder of this opinion in this part of the world
I really appreciate this. I’m glad there are people who realise the dedication and willpower it takes for anyone to remain a virgin past the age of 16 in the West. I was born and raised in London and most people lose their virginity before they turn 16 here, even the ones from religious Orthodox groups. I respect my body too much to just throw myself at any man and I would only have sex with the man I love and trust, preferably within a marriage. I basically just want one sexual partner in my life and that’s it for life. I will marry him and be with him forever.
that's beautiful :3 don't ever give up on that dream. Don't worry about the details too much, but for whatever reason, people may try to make you jealous and try to make you do something stupid that would lower yourself... if you catch people acting like that, tell em to fuck off, don't even feel the need to explain why. I let peer pressure make me do some dumb things as a kid, wish I would have just told everyone to fuck off
Thanks, that is the best advice! 🤗
*sits and waits for mens opinions too* but might i add, i think many still like the thought of being a girls first... or just simply like their women pure and untouched
Haha I’d like to know their reasons. I see a lot of comments about men not liking virgins these days on online forums.
Some dont wanna be the first because they know you’ll be attached to them and well.. if they werent planning on sticking around then thats a prob for them. Others also want an experienced girl who can teach them things
I think many men still like virgins. They just can't find many virgins.
Yes that's true. Finding a virgin girl it's really rare! (No offense for non-virgins)
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I'm an American and I don't care about her v-card. It's not important. I'm an American.
USA. Yes, it is very special for some men if saved for marriage. If you do choose to do it with someone wear protection so that the sperm RNA doesn’t get inside your brain until both agree on kids. Ask a neurologist on this he can give you more details
Of course.. I mean I'm Swedish and I think it definitely makes it more special having only slept with each other (or even just her having slept with you)... I mean if not reassuring (since everyone gets jealous) then special :)
Jeez I thought you guys are like more progressive 😕
I would appreciate the womans choices. On a personal note it is more pleasurable being with an experienced woman.
If a woman is a virgin it is always nice to be her first. Not a major issue either way.
Yes. It's not about body aspect, it primarily says something about the woman to me, about her life and mentality. I'm born in Russia.
and raised there too
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