Dear men, would you get into a relationship with a woman if the sex was bad?

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I dated some1 for a year we never had sex, til our 1st rime together after that year and i was bad at sex, so he said a relationship won't work. I dated someone for 8 months who wanted a relationship wirh me and i was bad at sex for that long and didn't get a relationship.
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  • No, first, I wouldn't stay in a relationship without sex for that long. That would be the time to work with each other physically, get more comfortably not just physically, but with communicating as well. If you engrave into your relationship that creating barriers is a normal thing, it carries over from one thing to the next.

    Anyway, everyone is bad in bed with each other the first few times, there's no one size fits all approach to sex, I've been with a fair number of women, and aside from attention, all of them have wanted different things.

    If we're not making progress to communicate and please each other, that's when I'd be out. Hell, I've been with my wife for over a decade now, and feel like we know each other more intimately as time goes on. It's something I never would have believed without experiencing it.

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  • If I had a connection with the person I’d give her a chance.
    we’d have to talk about it and find ways to improve.
    it is important for couples to be compatible sexually. Maybe u just need to find that person.

    this happened to you in 2 relationships?

    • Nice. Yes with 2 different people.

    • Plus i was a virgin and have anxiety.

    • Maybe you just need to find another virgin, My first was with a virgin…. we were virgins together! Much less anxiety

Most Helpful Girl

  • It can be worked on. I was crap at first. Now I'm a pro. Lol

    • Yeah. But do u find men to want something longterm with bad sex?

    • If there a decent human being they will look at the whole picture and if they have any sense they will know that you can work on it together. He's a total cock if he thinks otherwise

    • They're*

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It depends on what hde problem is. "Not enough sex" is easy enough to fix, and "not enough knowledge" will fix itself over time; "not enough enthusiasm" requires effort, and "not enough interest" kinda kills it dead.

  • YES, if there enough other great qualities about her, because the sex can be worked on.

    And all too often bad sex (or her not liking sex at all) is a sign of past traumas or past issues.

    My current lady, after a few weeks of "spooning" sleeping naked with her and bathing with her, felt safe and comfortable enough with me. She also appreciated the warmth in the winter months. Anyway, we have much better sex now.

  • There is no such thing as bad sex only lazy or selfish teachers

  • As long as she is willing to learn and improve, yes. If not, then no

  • Why the sex is bad, she is a frigid? anyway I can tolerate that if she not a slut.

    • As for the update, maybe you should waited until marriage, but it's too late for that now.

    • Disappear.

  • Depends on the girl, if she's worth spending the time teaching her how to be good at sex. How are you bad at sex?

    • Its one sided, he tries I dont, and I hardly touch him.

    • Why is that? Do you have some issues surrounding sex?

    • I was a version plus i have anxiety

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  • It would depend on her attitude.

  • Yes. Sex is like most other things, it gets better with practice. Plus, it's a hell of a fun thing to practice for. Obviously don't tell her it's because you think she's bad. It'd really, really hurt her and would make you a giant asshole. Plus, she may be thinking the same about you. It gets better as you get used to each other's nuances.

  • What is Bad Sex?

  • I have been in good relationships with a few women where the sex was less than ideal. There are other things that make a relationship work besides sex.

  • Yes, she could always get better.

  • Yes definitely if i love her. I don't think there's something called bad sex. We both need to communicate to make it better and pleasurable. Guys you dated were too stupid to think about making it better along with you. You shouldn't date such douchebags who are so into sex

  • Yes if there is a potential that sex can be good and she's willing to learn. Other things matter a lot too so sex if just one part of it.

  • No, honestly I wouldn’t. Good sex is important for building intimacy.

  • Thats a stupid reason to dump a person.

  • Probably not

  • sure.

  • Probably not

  • If I liked them and thought there was a potential future (personality/beliefs/etc) I would continue dating them and see if the sex gets better and/or if she is interested in learning/getting better. TBD after that

  • I wouldn't know before we are in a relationship

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