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Sexual Health Did he get a boner while we were cuddling?
katyzimmerman Xper 4
So, there's this guy I'm not technically "dating", but we hang out alone a few times each week and cuddle and stuff. He takes me out on one-on-one, datelike outings, I'm at his apartment enough that I'm friends with both his roommates, and there's mutual attraction... so, we're pseudo-dating, I guess. Whatever. Anyway, I'm 18, devoutly Catholic and saving myself for marriage. He's 21, agnostic and a self-proclaimed "recovering slut"---he's had a lot of sexual experience in the past, but he's said he's tired of casual stuff. When we hang out, we cuddle and play-wrestle a lot, and he likes to tickle me constantly, so there's physical contact but nothing sexual. He hasn't even tried kissing me, and it's been, like, a month and a half. Yesterday, when we were sharing a blanket and cuddling, he turned away from the show we were watching to face me, and he just made intense, unbroken eye contact with me for a solid minute, at least. It gave me goosebumps, actually, and I just kind of cuddled into him as little spoon. He ran his fingers along my back and rubbed my cheek. Then, he just asked me to get off the bed and sit in the chair instead. I stayed a little while longer and we just talked, until he told me I should go to class. So, my experience with guys is VERY limited (up until this past April, I'd never even been kissed before), but I think the signs are all there indicating that he likes me. Did he ask me to move because he got a boner and didn't want to make me uncomfortable? Do sexually experienced males of 21 even get aroused that easily? I wasn't really rubbing up against him or anything, and I don't have any kind of sexy, seductive charm---I'm a reserved virgin freshman. But then again, my top that day was a bit more cleavage-friendly than usual. I don't know. Explain?
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Basically, what I'm asking is, is a boner the reason he asked me to get off his bed? Like, it's not just because he didn't enjoy the physical contact, right?
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 24We get boners from anything and everything so sure
He's a guy. We get boners just by thoughts alone. Especially if our imagination is very vivid.
Only Always.
Yes, guys can easily get a boner... A thought, a rub in that spot, cuddling with a girl. Take it as a compliment.
He probably didn't want u to find out about his boner.
Unless he is repulsed by you he had an erection
Normal human male response