Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Did he really use me 😞😣?
Anonymous
I really liked this guy and we’ve been texting for a year and met up once as it’s long distance but we’re not in a relationship or anything. He did tell me how I’m not like other girls and different. So the second time I was going to meet him we made plans on spending the two days together. I was very excited about going to see him. I went and stayed for 2 days to see him 😣 before that I texted him saying I don’t wanna get used for sex (this happened with my ex I was being cautious) so he got offended by me saying that if I think he’s using me for sex he’d rather not sleep with me blah blah so I said I’m sorry I didn’t mean it that way. So when I went to go see him he had work while I was there as he works for his dad he finished work at 9 he said but delayed it as he had to drop a worker so he took he’s time and I ended up seeing him at night at 1ish we had sex and stuff and he said he’ll stay but after sex he was leaving and telling me how he has work next day but after work he’ll shower and come back to see me. Before he left he gave me a hug and kiss. So it was Thursday I heard nothing from him not a good morning text or nothing I knew he was at work but he was active on insta too I mean a text would of been nice. So then it was 4ish when he finished work I texted him asking “hey when u coming?” He took ages to reply and said “hey just finished gotta go to my dad job now worker can’t come in.” So i was disappointed cause he was supposed to see me after. So I asked “so you’re not coming? And he replied “after work sorry.” And I asked when do u finish work? He replied “probs around 10.” So then it was around 10 he texted me saying “just finished popping home to shower up.” Then I said “okay see u then.” After that he didn’t get back to me at all. So I said “u probably ain’t coming so I’m sleeping should of just.” in the morning heard nothing still then. I felt so used and I texted him again how he hurt me and thought he was different. He then unfollowed me.
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What Girls & Guys Said
8 27We all make mistakes. Lose this guy.
Why do so many gals like to tell people how they get lied to and how easy it is to make then think they have not
I am sorry 😔
Why do u think he unfollowed me on everything tho? 😫
He wants to end up things with you. My best advice for you, don't send him any messages or don't respond to them if he send. You are young, you deserve someone better
yup.
I'm sorry about that, he didn't csre about your feelings. But don't it let upset you, you can move on and find someone better who genuinely cares about you. Don't give up, you can move on 🙂👍
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You were used sweetheart.
He just wanted someone to dump his Cum in.
Sorry to sound so nasty baby but he used you.
I’m sorry mamas, you deserve better 🥺
If you enjoyed the sex and have a wish for another time to do this..
Then the Word #USE didn't fit for this situation.
Yes, it looks like it.
Sorry 🙁
Obviously all he was interested in was having sex with you—so yes, he used you for sex. You liked him, but you weren’t a priority to him—and he wasn’t appreciative of the effort you made to see him—and he’s NOT a good guy... I’m so sorry. Be glad you’re done with him.
Yeah the chatlines/ dating apps/ are no place to meet someone