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Sexual Health Girls, did I become gay now?
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Hello to you all! Well, my ex girlfriend left me, because I confessed to her that I have been having desires towards men and that I also like wearing female clothes and panties (mostly panties), so she reacted badly and left me. I am sad and broken, also alone and devastated, but I have been wearing her clothes and panties (which she left) since she left and I have been chatting with men in dating sites and yesterday night I hook up with one guy. I will spare the details, but I was only in girl's role and I loved it.. I am sure that I will want to do it again.. And I am wondering did I become fully gay.. And also what do you think, should I tell my ex about that?
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(17)It's much more complicated than that, you could be bisexual. The only way to know if you're gay is to take the time to learn about your preferences/likes/dislikes and experiment.
I’m not going to choose one of the options in the vote because you could be bi but slightly more attracted to guys than girls because being bi isn’t being attracted to each gender equally also you could be non binary and choose your pronouns I’m non binary but my pronouns are she/her I’m happy to talk about it privately if you like and i will listen to anything you want to say and help as much as I can
Thank you for your asnwer, sweetie. You have a point in everything you said, yes. I am confused, thats for sure.. As for talking about it privately, sure if you want. :)
Do you have Twitter we can talk privately there
No I do not.. :( I have instagram which is "quuennfox" I see that here we both can't write to each other in private, because we lack experience..
Yeah
Sorry about what happened to you. Well, I think you have a particularly strong emotional connection towards your ex girlfriend. This does not mean you are bisexual. You left some important details, like how you two met. Was it mutual? .. Since you fancy female clothes and seem to enjoy the company of men you might be just gay. It is ultimately up to you to decide whether or not you are equally physically attracted to both men and women. And, have you ever thought of being non-binary?
Thank you for your answer, sweet girl. :) Well, we have known each other since we were kids, but we get together two years ago and we lived together too, but she is the only girl that I have been with and since yestarday the only one person with whom I have been with (but yestarday I did it with a man too). I know that I need to decide, but I am confused... And I am not sure what non-binary means..
You two shared many different experiences together, and I think you must ask yourself (not necessarily right now or soon, but eventually...) why you feel this way, broken and sad that it is over. I understand that most people get upset about their first and most recent last love. You quickly moved on in a way by getting with a man so fast, so... I am not sure. You really must ask yourself some deep questions though that is what I recommend. A non-binary person does not prefer male or female. They do not care what people call them for the most part.
you didn't become gay, you were always gay
I wasn't sure (and I am confused even now), so... :(
Yes, if you've developed such feelings then you should call yourself gay