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Did I do the right thing here?

I was in law school, and I was at this guy’s apartment after our third date. We were making out on his couch and he had his hand under my skirt playing with me. I was really close to cumming when he stopped kissing me and blurted out “I really like you, but I have a girlfriend.”

I pushed him away, locked myself in the bathroom and masturbated till I came. Then I stormed out of the apartment and never spoke to him again.

Did I do the right thing? Or should I have let him explain?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You did the right thing. If he was committed to someone else he shouldn’t be fooling around with you. Once that information was revealed, in my opinion, you had a moral obligation to stop. Love your neighbor as you love yourself, or do unto others... etc. You wouldn’t want your boyfriend fooling around with someone else and therefor you shouldn’t be a willing participant in him cheating, though technically you have no commitment to his girlfriend or him.

    Additionally, if he’s cheating on his girlfriend with you, how can he be trusted? Even if you would never be in a relationship with him before knowing he was cheating, it shows a lack of character on his part and demonstrates he’s not trust worthy. I make it a point not to get involved with people who’s lifestyle includes generally being dishonest or deceptive. No telling what they may do.

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    • Agreed

  • Should have just banged him and leave.

    You do it for yourself because you liked him and probably at the point where you needed some release.

    You also do it for yourself by leaving his ass.

    • Agree with the second and third paragraphs.

Most Helpful Girls

  • OMG! I hope you at least slapped his face or punched him in the balls too.

    • Should have

    • At least you had your wits about you enough to get yourself off. Don't let him deny you that... lol

    • Thanks girl 😊

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  • Damn😂

    Did I do the right thing here?

    • 😂😂😂 Thank you!!!

    • Your fine

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  • I'd say, your in the clear. First, if he stopped right there, so close to you cuming. well, i can almost compare it to being blue ball. So, going in to the bed room and finishing, is so understandable. Second, If he has a girlfriend and has the nerve to try an be with you to, at the same time. Well, deserved what he got, an probably deserved more. He should just be glad, you didn't tell this girlfriend of his.

  • You did the right thing.

  • Depends on your value system. If you feel there's never a valid reason to cheat, then you did the right thing. If you think the world is full of grays, then maybe you should have heard him out.

  • Yes! Lol awesome! 😊😊

    • Thanks 😊😊😊

    • This made my day And what a wanker he timed that dispicably 😡

    • Ikr 😡

  • well yes and no, hard to sort out, one never know when a touch of guilt comes in, he may have wanted you and maybe he couldn't help some of it, then maybe something came across him, hard to determine what

  • Lol yeah I think it's good. But then he's a dick head to for stopping hahaha

    • True lol

  • I think I would have done the same thing!

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  • Yes, you did.
    He behaved horribly, I'm not taking about the orgasm withholding since I do it too for teasing; but for lying to you and blurting it out only in the middle of the moment, after three dates.

  • you did the right thing i think... he should have told you way before he put his hand up your skirt

  • You did the right thing and bonus points for sorting yourself out first.

  • it sounds like that bothered you so i'd say you did the right thing. what an idiot for saying that, but i've said some stupid shit too that broke things off immediately.

  • You did the right thing.

    All except the putting out on the 3rd date crap.

  • Yep!!

  • You did the right thing.

  • Yeah i think you did the right thing.

  • Yeah you don't want to have sex with someone in a relationship. Bad karma.

  • Lmao I feel like that's something I would do too. You did nothing wrong. You walked out at the right moment. Screw him... not literally xD.

    • Thank you 😊

  • Yeah he deserves to be cut out of your life you deserve better than a cheater

  • If not sooner, it would have happened at some point, so probably best that you got it over with - yes, you did.

  • I think you did the right thing. But I don't see why you had to finish yourself off in HIS bathroom

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