Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Long story short, I'm a single mother who had a child with a Black man. He abandoned me while I was pregnant and never heard from him again. First couple of years was really difficult for me but I got helped from my family to get back on my feet.
Now back to my question, I meet this white guy at a megacon Convention. He was good looking, funny and we shared a lot of things in common. We went out for lunch, everything was ok until I showed him a picture of my child then he got really uncomfortable and he never called me back after the lunch we had together.
I don't even know why I even care, white men aren't even my preference but I'm just shocked...
Did I just get rejected because of my biracial child?
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15 41Yes I would say he rejected you
Maybe he just wasn't comfortable dating a single mom
Yeah, it seems that might have been it.
Some men apparently dont date women who dated outside their race. Not jist white men though, i think many men of all races are like that.
Of all the things that people have gotten liberal, its stupid that people are closed minded about stuff like this. Anyway, it mighy have been for the best.
*Whines about white guys rejecting her and her black child*
*Doesn't prefer white guys in the first place*
Why can't you make up your mind? I don't blame white men for not dating you. Serves you right from messing around in the hood and completely destroying your bloodline. Face the consequences now, no self respecting white man would want to date you now. What white man would want to hold hands with a white woman with a little Tyrone and look like a complete cuck? No wonder you're a single mother.
Amen
I really wish the best for you and your son. I am sure he is cute but let me tell you my point of view. I am a single dad, I met a lot of girls who refused a relation with me because my daughter. Much better for me, they shown "their real I" and I don't want lose my time. But I act in the same way with a single mom with a biracial child. Why? Not because the size (I have a very good size) because the world is insane. A white couple with a black child has a lot of meanings (adoption, genetic...) but the first thing that people think is: He was cheated and not enough, he cares the baby who borned after that infidelity. In conclusion, it is hard but you don't need a guy if you want to be happy. Sorry for my poor English, I am Spanish. Good luck.
Maybe you don't need to play the race card. If I were him, the mere fact that you're a single mother would be a deal breaker.
I can relate. there's a woman at the gym I had the hots for. But 1 time we were leaving at the same time and I saw her getting her kids in the car and they were both really young (deal breaker) and a different race then her. big turn off.
These dumb racists are idiots
He probably didn't want to date anybody with children. I'm sorry to hear about what your previous partner did to you though.
Ignore the trolls on here. Go after the dad for $. Any sane girl would.
To be honest, the biracial part isn't even the main issue, your poor judgment is. You haven't forced child support out of the deadbeat father. Why do girls do this? I'm not getting involved with a girl that is a single mother for financial reasons, especially one without enough sense to be receiving child support.
So let's say he's broke, then he should go to jail for being a dead beat dad. Period. He should serve the prison system if he's too lazy to do support his child! What's your excuse for not going after him for child support? Sounds to me like you're not over him but he's over you. Get over him and take his sorry butt through the system or enjoy being single for a really long time.
Sounds like you're a coalburning welfare leach as well. The day of the rope will not be kind those like you and her.
@LOLingAtYou I've probably done more than you have. Childless basement dwellers aren't exactly heroes are they? Quit being blind and hateful and think outside of the box.
Many fedoras were tipped that day!
What makes you think a white man doesn't deserve better than you?
you got with a black guy despite the known fact that they abbandon their children... you deserve it hope you are forever alone
"I don't even know why I even care, white men aren't even my preference"
Sure, sure, that's why you're here telling everybody about it.
Shit happens dude, it's okay Way to move on
Can't you see your own hypocrisy?
"Waaa waaa, white men are racists cause they don't want to deal with my biracial son and thats why men are racists"
"whatever, I'm not into white guys anyway" (though they look to be an attractive option when you need someone to "take care of you and your child")
It's an indicator that you're pathetic life is plagued with bad decisions.
Now f you and your dark spawn.
I saw your other question and have pondered this question a bit and I think I have a solution for you. While you have squandered your opportunity for any sort of normal courtship and marriage there are a few edge cases that may help you here.
I recommend that you find an older established man, with some money who might be interested in you because of your youth and appearance. Such a man will be less concerned about your son, since it is likely to be less of a financial burden to him, and he may well have children of his own.
There are widowed or divorced men out there who might be attracted to you who fit the bill. Look for such men in church, chamber of commerce meetings, golf and other sporting venues. Furthermore you need to bring something to the table. Learn some trades or skills or other talents which can improve your life and make you more attractive to potential mates.
Sorry but no man except another black one is going to want you for a relationship and the black one will likely only stick around to knock you up again before ditching. People can make all the racism remarks they want but once you've gone black most white men don't want you back and you didn't just go black you bred a child with one. Actions have consequences and it's apparent by part of your family disowning you that you were warned and didn't listen because your selfish and only care about yourself. The statistics alone would have woken you up to the fact that the absolute worst choice for a partner especially one to get knocked up by would be a black male. Hell even the lilly liberal betas's who preach diversity non stop won't touch you at this point despite their claims otherwise. The best relationship you'll get at this point is to be a pump and dump girl because almost any decent man is going to see you as trash
Having a biracial child is a huge red flag for most white men. It means you don't care about long term planning and have very poor impulse control. Everyone but you knew that guy would ditch you, your parents probably tried to warn you before throwing their hands up and walking away. Nobody wants to be with a woman who doesn't respect herself or her family and will make decisions without any thought of the consequences.
you are a mudshark and used goods. good luck finding anyone. burn the coal