Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Long story short, I'm a single mother who had a child with a Black man. He abandoned me while I was pregnant and never heard from him again. First couple of years was really difficult for me but I got helped from my family to get back on my feet.
Now back to my question, I meet this white guy at a megacon Convention. He was good looking, funny and we shared a lot of things in common. We went out for lunch, everything was ok until I showed him a picture of my child then he got really uncomfortable and he never called me back after the lunch we had together.
I don't even know why I even care, white men aren't even my preference but I'm just shocked...
Did I just get rejected because of my biracial child?
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15 41Burn the coal, pay the toll.
I made an account just to reply to this post, you became a meme now, the fact that you are blatantly trying to use shame and you are obviously an emotional disaster alone makes you so unattractive.
Listen NO MAN who respect himself truly would date and much less marry you.
You would have to be very young (like 18) and be something like 9/10 for the type of man you want to even consider having a relationship with someone like you.
But obviously everything says you are no that woman.
If you were married with mister black and you were the one who dumped him that would be a slightly different case but you were disposable to him and no real man is going to carry your garbage.
Cheers
I don't see the problem here. yo White men aren't your preference, Why oh why would you even entertain the idea of getting into a relationship with one? Find A strong proud black man who has no problem with raising another man's child. It's the only right thing to do. Don't look for a white guy just to support you. That's deceptive.
If she's not interested in white men, she wouldn't have been on a date with a white man in the first place. She's obviously bitter and resentful that men of her own race aren't interested in her anymore.
Let's face it, the reason you think "my biracial child" is because you're a racist and that's why you fetishized black men to the point of becoming the vessel for a future black life. Why you're at conventions and not raising the child is beyond me, though. Great for you that you get out and have fun despite your child needing your attention!
Why don't you go for a black man again? Instead
That's all she'll be able to get in any case. White men thinks she's disgusting.
There's a saying called "once you go black, we never want you back".
Dating a single mother is bad enough, but dating a white woman with a black baby? That's another thing. Can you imagine how you and the white guy would look when you're out walking with the child together? People would laugh and frown at you both because he'll look like a complete cuckold walking with you and your black baby.
Most white guys would never consider dating a white woman with a black child. The only thing you can do is to stick with black men now. If that bothers you, well you shouldn't have been messing around in the hood, because statistically black men have the highest rates dropping out of their child's life, but you still made that choice. If you wanted to date white guys, you should have just aborted your black child when you had the chance.
And now, you're saying "white aren't my preference"? And you're surprised he rejected you? Well, he had way good enough reason to reject you, no self-respecting white man would date you knowing that either. Seems like now you just want to manipulate a white man into paying support for your black child I see here. You've screwed you're own life completely, mudshark.
If he didn't realize you had a child, that is at LEAST as likely why.
If not, yea, it's possible. Why?
- he may have suspected that 'white men aren't your preference' and he doesn't want to be with someone where he's not their preference.
- he may be threatened by you having black partners in the past if he imagines them as huge dicked thugs. Some guys seem to feel that way.
- he may have imagined walking around with you and the child and everyone clearly seeing it wasn't his, and that would bother him.
I'm not saying I consider these good reasons i'd follow, but I've heard them expressed.
A lot. It's an indicator that you're pathetic life is plagued with bad decisions. Just say no tocoal burners IS the LAW.
@randywhite It could be a red flag for a number of reasons: 1) you may have been crazy and obsessed with an ex, trying to trap him with a pregnancy 2) you're so irresponsible with your decisions that you weren't able to use contraceptives... it's really not hard to remember to take a pill and wear condoms (unless you're constantly drunk or on drugs) 3) you decided to throw caution to the wind because you wanted a child whether or not it had a father 4) half of black men have herpes or some other sort of STD, so the fact that you had unprotected sex with someone who was statistically more likely to have an STD could also be a red flag 5) recently, scientists have also found out that women carry the DNA of all the past male lovers they've had unprotected sex with in their spine and the DNA of past lovers actually ends up in the DNA of all a woman's future children-- he could have been worried about this because you obviously had enough unprotected sex to get pregnant Hope this helps!
typical black guy leaving after he knocks u up lol
Yes, he rejected you because you had a bi-racial child meaning you had slept with the "enemy" as far as he was concerned!
Maybe it was the fact that you had a child period.