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Anonymous
My boyfriend and I were home alone and I decided to stay over the night. We went to his bedroom and started watching Netflix. When we were done with the movie, we turned it off and just started talking, but I started getting horny. We started making out and I started touching him since I wanted to initiate sex, but he moved my hand and said that he wasn't in the mood for sex, just to mess around. He said no, I said yes, and we were kinda playing around. I pushed him onto the bed and got on top, but he started saying no and that he doesn't want to. I didn't listen, and I took off his jeans and started riding him. He was maoning and saying stop but still kissing me, so I thought he was enjoying it. I thought that until he cummed and pushed me off of him and I fell off the bed. He got up and screamed, "I said no" and stormed out of the room and slammed the door behind him. He hasn't talked to me since. Did I rape him?
Updates:
+1 y
I apologized and he said the its okay and that he thinks that he was being a pansy about it. He did forgive me, its just my self guilt that's eating me inside. I feel like he isn't acting as comfortable around me as he used to
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What Girls & Guys Said
27 39Yes you did.
Yeah hun. learn the meaning of no ffs
Yes ma'am you indeed did rape your boyfriend. How sad.
yea...
jeez girl, self control
you say "yea..." but something tells me if the genders were reversed, you would have something harsher to say that "jeez dude, self control"
@ksoma think whatever you wanna think I don t really care man
@archiz Haha, people will criticize anything these days...
@EllieLexis513 ikr? :P
And yet you girls bitch about guys raping you. Damn.
Yes that is rape.
You could call it rape (guys call it "forced sex", which sounds less criminal.)
Updates: "I apologized and he said the its okay and that he thinks that he was being a pansy about it. He did forgive me"
Problem solved.
Yes, you did rape him.
If someone says no then take it very seriously.. If I was your boyfriend I would lose all trust and comfort with you if that happened and it would be gone for good.
Hahah yeah you did. But I gotta admit. He was being a pansy. What guy doesn't want sex with his girl when she's horny.
I still feel guilty for what i did. He always was the emotional type
Just talk with him and seee whats up
I did and he said that he forgives me, but to me, it seems like he's not as comfortable around me as before. Plus, its been a month and he hasn't even kissed me or had sex. Whenever I try to kiss him, he moves away and changes the topic.
Are you for real? Lol
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Sounds like a pansy ass no lie. Lol like really most guys woukd not be like this
Really? -_-
@sarcasm_is_an_art your gonna have to decide fee what you mean by really?
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
@Omar5881 hahah what? 😛😛
About that last part lol
Try reversing the roles, would you feel raped?
Yes you did rape him.
No means no, no matter the gender.
You should have listened.
Don't be surprised if the police or authorities show up at your doorstep one day.
Yes your a rapist. You deserve life in jail and your vagina cut off
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I'm going to go against the grain here and say no. Thing is... for me i don't really take the "no" that seriously if he's still continuing to kiss you while you did it. Obviously, he was annoyed by the fact that you didn't respect his wishes, but i don't believe he left the room thinking that you raped him or that you're some vile animal. Like honestly, i imagine myself in a similar situation... and i wouldn't view you as a rapist like i view that standford kid who recently got convicted of rape and only was sentenced for 6 months. i'm not really like other people when it comes to using the words rape and rapist to cover every single instance like this. And tbh, i think if some of the other people answering this actually viewed you as a stone cold rapist as they say, they'd have given you a much harsher verbal beating.
All that aside though... learn to respect your partners wishes. You'll have a much better relationship if you do
Yeah but its a guy you didn't penetrate his body so i wouldn't sweat it
It still is rape.
Well I don't really believe a woman can rape a man to tell you the truth unless he is a little child or disabled.
Thank God morality and law is not dictated by what you personally believe.
@ksoma I couldn't agree more
@ksoma Well I am sorry you feel that way.
Yes, you raped him. By the feminist definition.
Apologizing after raping someone is not okay rapist should get the electric chair that's all I gotta say.
No you didn't rape him, he was still enjoying it while it was happening and didn't try to resist. Him getting mad at the end isn't part of this.
Reverse the genders for a second. He didn't give consent. This guy would be arrested if the situation were reversed.
@Maxemeister Even if I reversed the genders, my opinion wouldn't change. He was still enjoying it and kissing her back and getting into it while it was happening.
It's been said time and time again, even if they enjoyed it, it's sex so sometimes that'll happen. He didn't consent. It's rape. I can quote the laws if u want
@Maxemeister I don't need you to quote anything. I'm not interested in hearing anything from you.
Right, well I was telling you that you were actually very wrong in your "opinion". Thanks!
@Maxemeister I couldn't care less what you think of my opinion, I was never talking to you in the first place. Thanks! Putting it in quotes doesn't mean anything, it's still my opinion.
By law it's rape and by the general public opinion and polls it is rape.
@Maxemeister Why are you still talking to me?
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